So I wonder what you're thinking as you read my profile? I have longed to find you without success and can't help but wonder if I'm saying too much or to little? What do you say about helping me and tell what you're truly thinking when you read this.

I like walking after dinner holding hands and talking about whatever is going on opposed to going to the bar .I like cuddling opposed the spending tons of money for fake happiness. I am that guy that you see dancing slowly while singing into the ear of his love. I think I am a true romantic that needs someone to appreciate it. I would write you love notes and post them on the mirror or maybe send you some flowers pretending to be a secret admirer .I like walking in the grocery store feeling like I’m going to burst with excitement because I see everyone looking at you but knowing who you really are as a woman and they don’t have the slightest idea of what I have managed to hold onto. I am one to appreciate the little things that everyone seems to forget about but they miss it when it’s gone. I am a simple man that that loves to be next to the woman that makes me feel alive.
I have a great job, my own place, Jeep ECT ECT .In no way am I perfect so I don’t want you to be perfect either! Just perfect for me. I am not shallow but physical attraction is a good thing. I will give you everything I have to give as a man. I don't have a ton of money or a big house just me. If this isn't good enough for you well then you should just keep looking. I am also a very sexual person and truly believe that in order to have a good relationship you MUST!! Have a great sex life and know the difference between making love and four letter word LOL as well as having a flirtatious outlook towards each other like we had just met .So with that said If I sound like what you are looking for please tell me about yourself and what it is that you are looking for?
I look forward to sharing the rest of me with you as we get to know each other. I am a 6’4 250 pound man with a five year old daughter and a nine year old stepdaughter and you should know that I am a very dedicated father and I have my children often (Every Weekend and part of the week ).My girls have shown me a great deal of the meaning of life and I look forward to sharing that life with possibly you? .I would like you to be an active height to weight proportionate woman that doesn’t do drugs, drink too much nor have a criminal record

Side Note ! I work nights 4 tens Monday threw Thursday. I’m saying this to give you another reason to not contact me LOL. JK I just want you to be as informed as possible is all. My time to go out is little so if I choose to spend it with you it will surely be good quality time.


I just stole this off another profile! But it hit home because it just described what seems to be my life!

Ode to the Nice Guys
this rant was written for the Wharton Undergraduate Journal
this is a tribute to the nice guys. The nice guys that finish last, that never become more than friends, that endure hours of whining and ****ing about what ***holes guys are, while disproving the very point. This is dedicated to those guys who always provide a shoulder to lean on but restrain themselves to tentative hugs, those guys who hold open doors and give reassuring pats on the back and sit patiently outside the changing room at department stores. This is in honor of the guys that obligingly reiterate how cute/beautiful/smart/funny/sexy their female friends are at the appropriate moment, because they know most girls need that litany of support. This is in honor of the guys with open minds, with laid-back attitudes, with honest concern. This is in honor of the guys who respect a girl’s every facet, from her privacy to her theology to her clothing style.
This is for the guys who escort their drunk, bewildered female friends back from parties and never take advantage once they’re at her door, for the guys who accompany girls to bars as buffers against the rest of the creepy male population, for the guys who know a girl is fishing for compliments but give them out anyway, for the guys who always play by the rules in a game where the rules favor cheaters, for the guys who are accredited as boyfriend material but somehow don’t end up being boyfriends, for all the nice guys who are overlooked, underestimated, and unappreciated, for all the nice guys who are manipulated, misled, and unjustly abandoned, this is for you.
This is for that time she left 40 urgent messages on your cell phone, and when you called her back, she spent three hours painstakingly dissecting two sentences her boyfriend said to her over dinner. And even though you thought her boyfriend was a chump and a jerk, you assured her that it was all ok and she shouldn’t worry about it. This is for that time she interrupted the best killing spree you’d ever orchestrated in GTA3 to rant about a rumor that romantically linked her and the guy she thinks is the most repulsive person in the world. And even though you thought it was immature and you had nothing against the guy, you paused the game for two hours and helped her concoct a counter-rumor to spread around the floor. This is also for that time she didn’t have a date, so after numerous vows that there was nothing “serious” between the two of you, she dragged you to a party where you knew nobody, the beer was awful, and she flirted shamelessly with you, justifying each fit of reckless teasing by announcing to everyone: “oh, but we’re just friends!” And even though you were invited purely as a symbolic warm body for her ego, you went anyways. Because you’re nice like that.
The nice guys don’t often get credit where credit is due. And perhaps more disturbing, the nice guys don’t seem to get laid as often as they should. And I wish I could logically explain this trend, but I can’t. From what I have observed on campus and what I have learned from talking to friends at other schools and in the workplace, the only conclusion I can form is that many girls are just illogical, manipulative ****es. Many of them claim they just want to date a nice guy, but when presented with such a specimen, they say irrational, confusing things such as “oh, he’s too nice to date” or “he would be a good boyfriend but he’s not for me” or “he already puts up with so much from me, I couldn’t possibly ask him out!” or the most frustrating of all: “no, it would ruin our friendship.” Yet, they continue to lament the lack of datable men in the world, and they expect their too-nice-to-date male friends to sympathize and apologize for the men that are jerks. Sorry, guys, girls like that are beyond my ability to fathom. I can’t figure out why the connection breaks down between what they say (I want a nice guy!) and what they do (I’m going to sleep with this complete ass now!). But one thing I can do, is say that the nice-guy-finishes-last phenomenon doesn’t last foreve

First dates are fun but only if it is comfortable .I think it is best if we meet for coffee on a lunch break or something of the sort . or we could grab a bag of Cheetos and sit next to a river watching are fingers turn orange LOL and if you dont like cheetos we can think of something else .