My name is Carolyn and I just turned 23 in this lovely month of December. I live in a small town but have lived in the big city of Chicago as well. I have a big crazy extended family and I usually love them all!I have three older sisters and one older brother. I have an older stepsister and four younger stepsisters. Im an aunt of 9, and a great aunt of 2 with no kids of my own, I want kids though!. I am a 1st degree green belt in Taekwando. I dont dance much because I dont think I can, but usually will, just need a drink or two first. I sing, act, and play some music. I graduated high school in Joliet IL in 2005, top 20% of my class rank of 72 of 500+ students. Im basically looking for that one guy Im supppose to be with for the rest of my life, and have a family with them.Im not good at the dating thing, and I tend to get nervous about it at first, but after a while I warm up and Im a very fun person...just ask my friends! I attend Univeristy of Phoenix getting my law degree. I work as an assistant manager at Little Italys and a sales associate for Fashion Bug. If it pays my bills till Im done with school thats all that matters to me.

Some Likes:

Watching sports going to games
Outdoors, camping, fishing, swimming, going out on boats, cook outs
Going to the Museum of Science and Industry and the Field Museum, The Planetarium in Chicago
Go-Karts, Laser Tag, Going to Dave and Busters, Bowling, Wild Country in Collinsville
Love Hosting parties
Sitting around by the fire/fireplace with friends
Cuddling with that special someone
Video Games
My favorite place to go out to eat is the Olive Garden

Dis-Likes:

I hate going to the mall, I dont care much for going shopping as it is
Hate playing pool, but will watch others play it
I hate being cold,I want to cuddle up with a warm blanket

I hate mexican food, unless I make it myself

What Im looking for in a man:

Must have a job, and a good to solid income
Must have a car
He needs to be honest, I dont deal with liars
Must know what he wants and trys whatever he needs to get it
Needs to be reliable
I have to be able to trust you as well as you trust me!
Cant be lazy all the time
Knowing how to cook would be a plus...I've been to culinary school so we are good if you cant!!
Know how to handle difficult situations and not walk away from any problems
Must be single, divorced, not looking around for other people to date ( dont care if you have been married as long as its offically over)
Have to want kids someday (dont care if you already have some, if they live with you or not..I love kids)
Cant be a jerk to me,my family or friends.
Dont act one way around your friends and different when your with me...just be you all the time!

Yes it may seem like its a lot of detail, but I just know what I want. I have been through a lot in life to know whats good for me and what I need. This also helped me to realize what I need to give in a relationship to make it work.

Anything besides going to the movies....cant get to know eachother in the dark!
Maybe a game, dinner, drinks, if its nice outside go for a walk.