To laugh often and much;
to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children;
to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends;
to appreciate beauty, to find the best in others;
to leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch, or a redeemed social condition;
to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived.
This is to have succeeded.
-- Ralph Waldo Emerson

I am a strong, confident 37 year old who has a good head on his shoulders and a love for life. I am the second oldest of four children raised by caring blue collar parents that have instilled in me high morals, strong character and respect. I have recently been working on regaining my old college physique from a renewed diet and workout regimen so I am in great physical shape and improving weekly.

I am not really into the club scene but do enjoy a few good pints at a pub or glasses of wine with a great meal and stimulating conversation as often as possible. Don't get me wrong I can dance but I'm not gonna win any trophy's on Soul Train! Live music is like therapy for me. BBQing with friends, indoor go-karting, shopping...as long as you can keep up with me I'm there! I am always game for trying new restaurants, indoor/outdoor events and a good beer garden! I'm also not opposed to simply lighting a fire in the fireplace, opening a good bottle of wine and curling up for a movie or conversation. I also really enjoy cooking with the right help.

I am looking for my best friend first and foremost. Someone that likes and respects themselves for who they are and are constantly striving to better themselves. My ideal woman should take pride in her appearance and career but not break the bank trying to keep up with fashion or compromise her morals trying to get ahead. Open communication and honesty is what I seek and you should too. I am a courteous and honorable man that knows how to ham it up and tickle your gray matter.

That would all depend on the time of the year and my date. We could meet for a drink and see where that takes us. I'm up for anything from shuffleboard to skydiving as long as we get a chance to find out about each other and see if there is a connection.