Native NYer living in Naples for the past 11 years. Work full time and like to play on the weekends (dinner, dancing, music & just plain fun). Basically I'm just looking for a man I "click with" and then take it from there. My ONLY child still lives at home (16 yrs old), so I'm not looking for someone who is marriage minded or seeking a live-in relationship (right now). I consider myself intelligent, genuine, realistic, dependable, honest, open communicator, who is very assertive. I'm told I'm fun to be around, animated, witty, love to laugh and make others laugh. I love sarcasm, I "say it like I see it." Need someone who can keep up with me in thought & conversation (preferably another NYer). I love people & socializing with all walks of life. I'm very active, exercise 5-6 days a week (jogging, strength training, aerobic dancing & swimming)because like most Italians, I love to EAT). I own a home & have a very smart 16 yr old son who helps me maintain it. I like to sing, dance, cook & entertain friends, listen to live music, travel; love a party and although I'm a great planner, I like a guy who can plan spontaneous outings too. I'd say I'm "A Rocker," but I love R&B, Blues, Jazz, Funk - basically all types of music (except country & rap). Have 4 small tattoos; strategically placed.