I would label myself as a honest, good hearted, affectionate guy who has been married twice, 1 lil girl from the first and 2 boys that I have custody from the 2nd. On my "kidless" time, I enjoy hanging out with friends, floating the river, dancing, comedy clubs, festivals, concerts, working out..looking forward to try and squeeze a skydive in this year, maybe a scuba trip...basically I can have fun at most things as long as Im with friends/someone that is having fun. I have goals and dreams, but dont allow that focus to get in the way of enjoying life everyday...as a single parent, you cant, and when it comes down to it, Id rather be a GREAT single dad to my kids then an okay single dad that exceeded his personal goals/dreams, but thats just me.

The ideal girl for me would be someone with a similair approach to life, someone that shares some of my interests but has her own...someone that believes that people arent suppose to go thru life alone....someone that realises that you "work to live" not "live to work"...and most importantly, someone I could be proud of as a person.

UPDATE: 07/27/2009
If any one of these things describe you, then dont bother sending me an email:

1)If you take out PayDay loans, yet still get you nails, hair "did".....NAH
2)If you dress nicer than your kids.....NAH
3)If your more impressed by a mans rims on his "ride" than his manners....NAH
4)If you believe that you could go through life HAPPY w/o a man....NAH
5)If you dont get that "I want that" feeling when you see a complete family in the mall...NAH
6)If you dog your kids father in front of them, or scream at them.....NAH
7)If you have no direction in your life....either be at a point in your life where you arent searching on "what you want to do when you grow up" or at least be happy with the path that you are on and live life for what you need to do today and tomorrow, not what you should ahve done yesterday.












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Well I think the first one should b something low key, an atmosphere where we can get to know each other and see if there might be "something" there...the 2nd date is always the one that counts to me...thats where you are already excited about seeing the other person, first impression jitters gone and just concentrate on having fun.