"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself. ""
I live by this quote.. Got to love Fred...



I only email if your in my matches, I find the rest of this site to be scary..lol

I find intelligent men to be hot. If you think your just hot and I'm going to fall all over think again beauty fades intelligence lasts along with the conversations. I've never been in a relationship with someone my age they've always been younger. I seem to get along with younger men. I am very focused on my career and also have a strong loyalty to my close friends. I love to have fun and make my own fun, I don't need to have the perfect environment, I blend in every where. I'd like to find a man that wants to be with one woman. He should be intelligent, well dressed and can enjoy himself no matter what we're doing. I have simple yet complex needs. I don't want to be in a relationship with someone who has been conditioned by some insecure female before me. I don't have time to break silly habits. I'm easy to be around, I'm happy with good conversation, great music and good company. I give my trust therefore you don't need to earn it but you must maintain it. Trust is a huge to me without it there is nothing. I have a thing about kissing, if you're not a good kisser it will be your first and last date with me. I think kissing is the most intimate thing that two people can do together. I'm not here on this site to change anyones life but to enhance it. I don't like controlling situations. Please limit the hate mail it's boring and sad that you have nothing better to do with your time. I find it ironic that some have a problem with my age range, yet when I bring up their profiles they say 18 30 years old.

I do read every word of profiles and in between the lines, not much gets past me. Please those young men that think I'm some kind of science project there are plenty of older women on this site that would jump on it, not me. I know who I am and what I want.

I'm picky and expect your pictures to be as recent as mine are, which are all recent.

If I do not answer your email do not be offended, your just not what I'm looking for and I do know exactly what I want.

Best wishes in your search whatever that may be..

I HONESTLY DON'T KNOW...I THINK THAT SHOULD BE THE MANS DECISION TO MAKE, I LOVE TO DO PRETTY MUCH EVERYTHING.
ICE SKATING WOULD BE FUN OR HORSE BACK RIDING..