i am a 60yr. old widow of 3yrs. i was very happily married to a man of great compassion, love and committment for 35yrs. i am looking for another great love. i am a "gentle" woman. i love people and really like to get into their heads and find out what makes them tick. interior design is my passion. i had a successful interior design business for 30+yrs.i worked for some of the same clients for 25yr.several have become my very best friends. they treat me like family and i love it. money is definitely important to me. i can't eat without it. i do like to dine in fine resturants as well as undiscovered, intimate places with great food. i am a genuine person. what you see is what you get. i am as comfortable dining with a group of vips as with the kids in the kitchen.
i love kids and they love me. they call me "she-she". i love to travel. especially to places around the water and water sports. i want to find a man of great integrity, compassion, comittment and love. a true "gentle"man that doesn't want to hop into the sack as soon as we meet. he must be completely loyal-have never experienced someone who is not and certainly don't want to now. i will give all my loyalty & love in return, and then some. i want a guy who is adventursome, fun and loves to laugh. i want someone who is comfortable in his own skin that accepts me just like i am. i am a christian and have a personal relationship with my heavenly father. i need someone who can accept that and hopefully is a christian too. that doesn't mean he has to be a "stick-in-the-mud" kind of guy. i would hate that. i want a guy who has great passion for life and intends to live many more healthy, happy years. grieving is hard work and i don't want to have a repeat performance. i need a buddy, a guy that i can look up to, respect, admire and adore. someone i can't wait to introduce to my daughters so they can see the light in their mother's eyes again. wow! what a guy you'll have to be. but i know god didn't make just one.

I WILL NEED TO MEET. COFFEE, LUNCH, DINNER. UP TO YOU, BUT I WILL NEED TO SEE YOU FACE TO FACE SO I CAN HEAR YOUR VOICE AND LOOK INTO YOUR EYES. THEY ARE BOTH WINDOWS TO THE SOUL TO ME. AND I DEFINITELY NEED TO KNOW WHO YOU ARE ON THE INSIDE.