I'm a professional woman, with a career that I love. I truly enjoy my life and would someday like to share it with the right man. My divorce was final in January, but in my heart it happened over a year ago. I'm currently taking my time and seeing what's out there. I compromised before and lost myself. I can't do that to myself again.

I'm petite (make that fun-size 4'10.5"), intelligent (a bit nerdy and geeky, I'll admit), fun to be with (I'm almost always laughing and don't take myself too seriously), and have good morals. I choose to surround myself with positive people. I love trying new things and am an adrenaline junkie. For good or for bad, I wear my heart on my sleeve. Part of that is I tend to tell it like it is. I should also warn you that I can be loud, so can my laugh. If that's something that would embarrass you, then you probably would NOT want to be out with me in public :-P. I am a passionate person especially when it comes to kissing, cuddling, and more with the right guy.

I would like to spend time with a guy who is intelligent (brainy- former high school nerd perhaps?), fun, considerate, good conversationalist, doesn't take himself too seriously, good looking, has a nice smile, and also has good morals.
I understand the importance of staying active and being healthy so I'm looking for someone who takes care of himself with regular exercise and diet, but not to the point that he's a slave to his body. I like a guy with nice muscles, but not too thick. ;-)

It behooves me that nice guys frequently end up with girls that are b*tches and nice girls frequently end up with jerks. I'm just a nice girl looking for a nice guy who knows how to treat a lady.

In a nutshell, I am looking for a guy who is intelligent, fun, adventurous, thin with some muscles or just plain muscular, has a good/stable job/career, has good morals, is good looking, and is chivalrous. Right now, I just want to date and see what's out there. I am open to developing a relationship with the right guy.

Oh, and great smiles are important to me, so if you write to me and don't have a good picture of you smiling (with teeth showing).... I might not write back.

I also know that there are many wonderful men out there who are also fathers. Right now, I'm not interested in dealing with the dynamic that kids bring to a relationship, even if it's just a dating relationship.

If I put you on my favorites list, it's my way of flirting with you, so please drop me a line if you are interested ;-).

And by the way, I consider littering one's dialogue with swear words to be a BIG turn off. Especially the F-bomb. I am of the philosophy that there are appropriate times for it, but not in casual conversation.

For a first date I would like to do something interactive, where we can get to know eachother better. However, I don't ask guys out on first dates, so it would be up to you. And I always appreciate chivalry.