I have a lot of activities I like to do when I get time and I am open to learn new things. My goals is to live as long and as healthy as I can and not make any of the same mistakes I made when I was young. I am the kind of man that will work in the kitchen right a long side of you, not behind you. Note- I'm not sure how all men have their matches set on here but if they smart they will set them where it says users I'v not contacted to avoid contacting the same person twice. That would mean this is a 1 way ticket. Women on here seem to pass you up like the boat is coming around again. This is just for fyi because it is more serious the you then you think. This site also sticks to the profile like glue. If you put ages 40 to 45 and miles distance 20 miles this site will not let us contact you if we outside those preferences. Many women I have talked to on here said they didnt know that so I though it was a good Idea to explain this to help me and maybe a few others. Note- I noticed that there are women on here with special preferences and that is great and cool, but this is a free open site and realy dont deal with special preferences and not to be rude but it's stupid to be on here when they have special sites just for you. If you want a tall man there is tall sites, if you want a rich man there is rich sites, black man for black sites and so on, so what or you doing on here telling men you only want this or that, if that is what you want go get it. What this does is make a mess out of this dating site. I's dum. I dont have that many preferences checked except for real important stuff like drugs or so. if this was a site you pay on, ya that makes sense, but this is just a open free site to casualy date so it makes no sense. I once read a woman's profile and she said that most people on these dating sites dont understand the dating rules and if you dont understand them how can you you be sucessful at dating and she is right. I dont mind talking about this stuff because I may open a few minds and help somebody and besides I'm not realy having any luck so this is good pass time lol

The best way to break the Ice is to go have lunch at the ladies place that she chooses and go from there. I will buy so dont even worry about that. I dont care about buying, a lot of women are not sure if they paying and they taking there time trying to figure out if they want to go or not. I will buy even if it dont work.