Update: I've been single for well over 3 yrs and am ready to move on to the next phase of my life. there are so many interesting women on here and like them I just want to love and be loved unconditionally.
. I don't come on too strong as I don't want to be hurt or hurt anyone either. So then, I will continue to look for 'her' and see where this all goes. Happy fishing folks
I'm interested in a woman's character as much as (if not more)than her physical self.
I love playful banter and generally laughing together
I can cook, and do so regularily.(not a take out junkie)
I appreciate everybody has unique circumstances and thus adjust to accomodate
I am loyal,caring,honest, and reasonably well adjusted.
I have 1 son(13) whom I love and see often.
I love music and art in general
I write often (not novels but I try)
I love to listen to people(I love a good story)
I don't use cheesy lines
I value a woman who likes to laugh
I value a woman with opinions and who voices them
I don't value over serious people as they seem angry under the surface(just my opinion)
I like to drive aimlessly(summer)
I like to do nothing a feel good about it sometimes
I am mechanically inclined but not a mechanic
I don't hate the ex
I don't love her either but will always help out where my son is concerned.
I respect animals and keep 2 cats and 1 snake(yes a snake!)
I treasure old friendships
I make time for family (within reason, ie won't drop everything for a sibling whom has slighted me once too often)
I enjoy watching my neice(3 yrs old)explore her world and that is priceless
I enjoy gardening as digging in the dirt is cathartic
I want to pick up the guitar again
I don't watch survivor but love American Idol's bad singer auditions.
I will do anything for those I love
I don't expect anything in return for a favour-I like to help
I don't belong to any organized religion but believe in spirituality and kharma
I don't base self worth on career and money but they have their place of course
I'm not a poor man either
I believe in honour and truth
I love romance and quiet moments sharing secrets
I try to be kind to those in need In a nutshell I love to experience new things with that one special person and this page is just a drop in that bucket
P>S> A good pic does wonders.Hate to say it but us males are highly visual.

Conversation is welcome either on line or via that old fashioned phone-thingy preferably as endless e-mails are tedious. After that and if all goes well,coffee,walk and talk or dinner in a quiet setting, no pressure(interviews are stressful enough)