~UPDATE~ So i only keep this account open because it's free, and sometimes I am bored and rifle through the profiles and read the emails that I get. But honestly this site is a total lark. lol It is me or is this site full of BS? Guys often feign initial interest but then can't be bothered to follow through to actually meeting in person? I am not interested in chatting online and sending you dirty pics of myself, don't you realize how much free porn there is on the internet?? I don't have time to waste on empty picture exchanges and chats that lead to no where. If your not looking to meet a flesh and blood human, then don't contact me. And no, I am not sending you naked pics of myself-- I don't know you. LOL

And yes I am aware that my profile is long, if you don't have the attention span to get through a few paragraphs then you won't have what it takes to hold my attention anyway...that being said, if you choose, then read on, if not, I am not losing sleep over it...haha :)






I am engaging and ever-changing. I evolve with the moment when with intriguing company.

I can have those ethereal conversations that last hours, where you can't believe where the time disappeared to.

I take care of myself, but am more of a natural kind of woman. I look just as good in a baseball cap and jeans as a slinky black dress and heels.

I am a better person today than I was yesterday, and will continue on my trek to be "all that I can be" (not meant as a military reference :)

I am romantic, thoughtful and overly giving, and want someone who appreciates a loving gesture. I am the type of person who will give you a gift of something you always wanted and happened to mentioned to me once, months prior.

I loathe denial and ignorance, and don't want anyone floundering in their own personal wasteland of issues. I need a man who is willing to evolve, with me, but for himself.

Growth, both spiritual and emotional, is very important to me.

I make someone who is important to me a priority, not because I have to, but because I want to.

I am not looking for an instant relationship, but I am looking for something that has that potential. I want to enjoy getting to know someone. A man who gives me the feeling that when i am near him, i am taken by that spark of attraction, and I want and NEED to know more about him. If I am nervous around you at first, then that's a good thing (and rare), because it means I am impressed.

Thanks for taking the time to read my ad :) I will take into consideration everything in your profile, and reply to see if i think we'd be a good match....I find it easier not to respond if we're not a good match, cause let's face it, no one likes telling someone they don't fit their type, as much as no one likes hearing it! I will try to respond timely to those i would like to get to know more about :)

NO PIC NO RESPONSE....fair is fair :)

UPDATE**** Ok because i am getting a HUGE amount of mail, more than I could possibly answer unless I made it a full time job, I wanted to be more specific as to what i am seeking.

I want to THANK YOU all for your responses. Some of you are truly kind, and take great care in your responses and they are much appreciated. But since I can't possibly be compatible with EVERYONE i decided to give you an idea of what I am looking for broken down in specifics:

Age range: please be between the ages of 30-45 ...younger menare no doubt attractive, and some are very mature for their ages but most are not mentally in the same place. Men older than 45 could also be attractive to me, but with such a large age difference I fear we also might be out of sync too much.

I like guys that are in shape....I work at looking the way I do and I hope to meet someone who also works at how they look.

Also I am not into guys with shaved/bald heads...I don't know why...why do some men prefer blondes? Why do some people hate swiss cheese? Conversely, I am also not into guys with very long hair. It's merely just a taste thing, there is no rational explanation for "taste"...so please do not be offended. You wouldn't be offended if I didn't like swiss cheese right? Sorry guys, it is what it is.....

and last but not least, and this one is a touchy one, I would prefer a man who has no children. I know i know, how can i exclude a man for that? well, i have dated a few men with children, and it just didn't gel into the bigger picture for "us". So I am not 100% against him having children. But if i had a choice, I would prefer that he was as new to that as I am. Of course, divorced is ok, but don't be separated...(finish one thing before you try to start another please)

ok....i have said enough I think...lol..thanks for reading guys :) happy fishing..

P.s I don't know why I am on so many people's "favorites" list...I don't get it really? I suppose it's flattering, but if you want to get my attention, best thing to do is send an email. Thx again :)

p.s.s. I have a kitten, if you HATE cats, or are some how bothered by pets in general, you need to worry about your soul, because pets give unconditional love. IF YOUR THAT TWISTED by a small loving creature and that is somehow a "dealbreaker" then don't bother emailing me.........oh yeah, and get yourself some therapy...thx.

If there is an attraction, and the spark is present we will probably have plans to do something but wind up staying right where we started and having drinks, laughing, and looking into each others eyes.... hanging on each word the other one is saying. Playfully touching each other, and perhaps even sharing a heart racing kiss or two. That is a perfect first date to me. Or we can go sky diving? lol