...Are you sitting comfortably...
I am truthful and honest and wear my heart on my sleeve, so what I now write will be frank and you know you can trust it - I am looking to meet someone permanent and so I need to be truthful and show you accurately what I am like or we wont last....will we???

It is a fact that I am a thoroughly good person and endeavour to be as good as possible to, and love with all my heart, everybody. It is not always easy though, is it? Some people were born on this world to test us, and test us they do! I am not talking about thick people, with whom this world is sadly bulging - its not their fault!! But people who really are selfish and evil and know they're doing a nasty/bad act - these types of people I struggle to love, but we need to desperately remember that there IS actually only one thing that is good in this universe and that is... Unconditional love. Unconditionally.

Full time employment drags me down for a good 5 days every week but I manage to factor time in for play as a neccesity. All things fun are my REAL forte but unfortunately one finds that you need to have money to have fun. **stard.

Was originally from Australia but been here in the UK for 18 years or so now. Would love to take a girl or lady over there to show them round my city - Perth. I go and visit often but the flight really takes it out of you.

One day when I was younger I thought that I could change the world, didnt we all? It seems a lot harder now and especially in the face of all the fear that is being touted in the news and media. This seems to be making people less and less friendly to each other, less giving and generous, more selfish (every man for himself) and certainly more suspicious!!!!!! I really dislike it and am hoping some of you can restore my faith in Humankind.

However,
I have been listening recently to a guy called Mellen-Thomas Benedict who died and came back to life, he had a near death experience and it was (apparently) filled with much wisdom. Whether or not this is the truth remains to be seen but I like the message being given and here it is:
"I asked the light why humans had a dark, evil side, and the light showed me a myriad of human souls and took me through them and all I can tell you is that there was no evil there. And then the light showed me a giant picture of the humble mosquito - which is and has been the worlds biggest killer ever. The light asked me: Is the Mosquito evil?"

What I personally like to see here is that we are all part of the same life force and connected in every way, we just dont have the biological hardware to see it properly (and the diversion of TV makes it even harder to see)... And the point is the that while we are "trapped" in our bodies, whatever our bodies / minds do, our soul will always be perfect and will never die.

I wonder sincerely when the time will be that the colour of a mans skin has as little relevance as the colour of his eyes. It saddens me that we feel we are so technologically advanced that we can do what we do, feel so modern, and yet not be able to get over this old, old ancient curse, that - in part - keeps wars raging accross the globe when we could be - in the words of Bill Hicks - "Exploring outer space as a race" - i.e. Human (not "British" not "American" not "Black" not "white" not "Jew" not "Muslim" but "HUMAN" - The rest are just labels issued to you by the media and popular opinion).

So... When I am not on my soap-box and ranting away I am usually an easy going person, I endeavour not to judge as I do not like being judged myself unless it is a fair judgement. I try to give at least as much as I get if not more(!) and I try to help others when ever I see I can. But I can take care of myself and have intellect. Try me.

One last thing... There are so many women on here saying bad things about men, are we really that bad?? You seem to be searching for a prince, any nice men out there, etc... well if you have got this far then you have found one. I cant believe that most men are like that because it just simply does not come into my thinking. I try to dote on a woman and I shower them with love (if they deserve it lol!) I wouldnt dream of my lady (whoever she may next be) ever being in want or need. I have great hands, and massages are on tap. Good ones, mind, not the crap ones (hey girls I have seen a bit of life y'know and have a fair bit of practice), in fact you know the saying that a bad massage is worse than no massage well I reckon they should insure my hands... along with my tongue. Yeah a bit base, I know, but you get lots with me, for not much in return. I'll bring laughter, love, affection and kindness.

BTW - I AM 27 NOT 31 AS THE PROFILE SAYS - SORRY FOR ANY CONFUSION!


I would just like to take the time to say that suddenly work has become a large thing mon-fri. If you mail me, please be patient I will reply to all, just takes me time sometimes.

I like to take women out to dinner. I like the (semi) formality and dressing up smart, the chance to be a gentleman and the occasion. Its nicer and quieter to try to get to know someone and you can decide if you want to head to a bar after! Then if she does like ya, its in the bar you can lean close and whisper sweet nothings in her ear.

But am happy for a drink, a dance, shorts or pants! I'll do 'owt!