I do my best at leveling the playing field by sticking to the truth for all concerned (and I do mean all). I never have to worry about what I said.
You have a very special glint in your eye that says to me, “maybe she is the one”. Do you see something in me too? We will never know until we meet.
Like two ships passing in the night, within yards, yet unaware of each other. It is kind of sad and melancholy. Please don't let my ship pass unnoticed, you must wave at least, or throw me your scented hanky, or something... like that sad old Charles Boyer movie “Back Street”.
I must meet you...not hold your hanky for the rest of my life, wondering, what if????

Your Incurable Romantic,
Tom
Mission Statement
To enjoy life to its fullest, to savor every delectable morsel it may offer – to strive to look every day at the simplest of pleasures with wide-eyed wonderment and to free my spirit…To continually expand my thinking and broaden my knowledge through new experiences. Continually paint life with a joyful passion, and add to our palette of colorful inspirations which stimulate and enrich us.
To motivate people not just to push the envelope, but to tear it and step out of their shell of complacency and explore new vistas. To create in people a curiosity which will prompt sensations of awe and spirituality. To encourage people to experience the diversity of cultures in cuisine, fashion, music and art …all of which makes our lives richer and more fulfilling

I love to Gadabout to fun places, seeking new experiences and adventures. I enjoy concerts, theater, Christmas, writing, historical sights, mineral springs, hot tubs, touring interesting homes, museums, galleries, antique collecting (more looking then buying) picnics etc etc etc I don’t watch much television, but I do like old and new movies, cornball Christmas shows. I generally don’t like sports although its fun to go to a game occasionally.
Description: I am a handsome, in shape (not buff, just solid), up beat, romantic, fun, spontaneous, creative, imagination and honest gentle man. Did I say that I am a polite, sensitive, protective and sophisticated? I put women on a pedestal, but I like to get up there too.
. I love to give and receive affection, caresses, comfort, advice, embraces, passionate kisses, heart felt hugs, massages, and , and, and… I wasn’t always this way, being a very insecure young man. I like myself a lot now, but it’s not love. There is some thing to be said about maturity although I still am adolescent in many ways, which might explain my speeding tickets. . I sometimes get on my high soapbox when I get fired up about politics and world issues. I try to balance an objective view of problems with compassion for the people and
Looking for: I’m looking for a woman who can be my playmate, shares my insatiable curiosity, with a wide variety of interests. A warm, stylish, easygoing woman. who is spontaneous, fun, romantic, sensual, loving and exciting to be around.
I connect emotionally with my partner and give and receive pleasure easily, whether it’s sexual or simply an affectionate touch. My sex life will never be boring again. I know what it’s like to emotionally connect with someone and truly make love (vs. just having sex).
For fun: I love to stay on the go. Restaurants, dancing, drives, museums, theater, picnics, swimming at local hideaways and resorts, piano bars, traveling, etc. My hobbies include gardening, cooking, reading the latest news and writing.
Favorite hot spots: One of my favorite hangouts is the piano bar at the Carmel Mission Ranch. I don’t sing but I love to listen. I’m always following my favorite musicians wherever they perform. I love the Shadow brook for romance, Spanish Bay for the view Favorite things: Talking and glazing into the eyes of the lady I adore, usually over drinks and dinner. I love romantic and exotic destinations and I am always looking for new experiences. Adventures await us.

"I'd rather be a character then not have any"