Hello there


My life is my own and I am enjoying it. I have dealt with the "baggage" and have moved forward and like what I see on the road ahead! I value family and friends. I have a great job that I love and have no need for anyone to support me, I manage that quite well on my own. I have learned what is important to me and what I want and would like in a "relationship". I can and do appreciate the differences between the sexes! and there are many :) I no longer "sweat the small stuff". I am comfortable, confident in myself and that includes my femine, sensual, and sexual side and am not into playing head games.I enjoy the company of a man and miss having someone to share the everyday simple pleasures that life has to offer. Life is what we make it! and often times are better shared. I am looking for a friend, a lover and a companion. Someone who would like to share life, family and friends but not control it....contact me....you just might be glad that you did....my pictures are recent....that being said I have also learned from this site that pictures are not always as they seem....so please include recent pictures of yourself if you contact me, I am not looking to change anyone so please don't expect me to change...it never works, we need to enhance each other. I like to spend time at the gym and would enjoy a friend to do that with! Friendship is a great place to start!

I have no difficulty responding to profiles without pictures however be prepared to share eventually. Chemistry and attraction! who knows what makes us attracted to another,,,for me it is a combination of so many things,,the smile, the twinkle in the eye and what lies within the person...please don't add me as a favourite unless you plan to contact me....

A "first date"! in my mind the first meeting is not a date. Lets meet for a tea or a coffee and talk, a walk which is simple, not too expensive for either of us and yes indeed I will pay for my own beverage!or sit and chat in the coffee house, then if we are both feeling a connection then we can arrange a "date" that suits us both.