well, not sure what to put in here just yet...but i like going out to eat, seeing movies, going to all the festivals around town...things like that...i'm a little shy at first but warm up very easily around the right people...i'm looking for my partner in crime to go out and do things and enjoy life and hopefully make a serious relationship out of things...yes...i love nights at home on the couch...and sometimes i need that one on one time...life can't be all about running around, there has to be a balance...and fyi, i do smile, ha, ha....just not in many pictures, and yeah, the mirror thing, it's simply the easiest way for me to take pictures of myself :P now...what am i looking for, well, someone my age or younger, no kids...i've tried that, and it just doesn't work for me, it's hard enough to date let alone add that into the equation...as far as looks and stuff, well, obviously, i want someone who i find attractive, i'm not overly critical, i don't think...i don't mind some curves, but i do like someone who is relatively fit and essentially healthy is the best way to put it, but certainly don't mind a little "softness" here and there, ha, ha...i'm certainly not pure muscle, yet, ha, ha, plus, there is such a thing as a woman being too skinny, otherwise a pretty smile never hurts, as well as a great sense of humor, a warm heart, a sense of compassion, a nice butt (hey, had to throw that in ;) ) and probably above all else, someone who is honest...i hate liars...trust is very important to me

well, i usually go with the old stand-by...dinner...and then who know's...sometimes just meet for drinks, lunch...anything really, even just meeting up and going for a walk and talking, but def. something that involves conversation