Hello everyone.. Since my divorce I have made many friends here.. I really enjoyed the singles parties in Edwardsburg and meeting like minded & good valued people. I have had a tough year and it just got more interesting. I am not accustomed to court or custody battles, but have found that I am now digging my feet in because it's an ugly one and to be honest dating is the last thing on my mind. However, I am not opposed to a night out to relax & enjoy someone's company. I am a bit nervous as to dating because I have not really enjoyed good company like I thought I might, but still have not given up on it. I am very loyal & companionship works for me, but solo has been very rewarding for me - as I have discovered in the last 2 yrs- Trust & Respect are factors when I consider someone important in my life and bring them in.. Chemisty is a plus - because we are all wired for that.. can't help it.. I am going to be here for a while.. Elkhart I mean, so I will try to be optomistic while I am here.. Otherwise, I would move for career & warmer weather.. I am very active & outgoing, but like introspective moments too.. Intellectual, sexy & secure with a wild side & the ability to be very accountable and mature are must have qualities.. I have those & find those lacking in my counter parts.. Sexy only get's your foot in the door with me.. I want some substance - something I can work with.. Non - drama queen.. I need a mature man that understands that for a change..

Dinner, Ice skating, The arts.. lunch - I am pretty open as far as a first date.