While some people ponder if the glass is half empty or half full, I'm wondering who the heck has been drinking from my glass!

I have a wonderful network of friends who are very important to me.

I have a soft heart for animals and have rescued many dogs, cats, turtles, chipmunks, birds, ducklings, emu's and meerkats.
(Ok....maybe not emu's, but I would if I found one!)

I enjoy all types of music.
Rap, country and hard rock - not so much!

I go to the gym several times a week. I love to dance and would like to take lessons in some of the faster paced dances.
But there's nothing better than a nice romantic slow dance with that someone special~
I also take Zumba classes - now I bet your wondering what the heck that is!

I enjoy gardening and have grown my own orchids, herbs, and flowers which have attracted many hummingbirds and
flying squirrels! No, not a ground squirrel that could fly ~ I've seen his gliding cousin!

I've traveled many places and have done a lot of things in my lifetime.
I have never gone hang gliding, skydiving nor have I climbed Mt Everest and they're not on my list of "things-to-do".
That list is longer, there is still so much of life to experience!


A personal goal: I'd like to convince POF to replace their "Do you have a car" question with "How many people have you had sex with in the last year" or how about "Have you ever been institutionalized"!
Now here's an interesting question: "Do You Do Drugs?" Does that include aspirin? Does anyone REALLY answer yes to that?
What are they thinking!


Don't let my single status put you off. I have loved and I have lost; I have committed myself to a loving relationship and I can again. I simply didn't marry my mistakes.

To avoid encountering "Predictable Male Withdrawal Syndrome"(a.k.a. "I think I'm in love, run for the hills disease" which is closely related to, and not to be confused with, "Oh cr*p, I think I like you, run like a rabbit syndrome")
I thought I might add that, while I'm here for dating, I would like it to EVENTUALLY lead to a LTR.
I didn't select LTR as it might give the impression that I'm ready to jump right in to one.
But that is not the case, I have a life that I enjoy; I'm in no hurry, and I believe in having fun ~ to me that's what really matters.

(Oh, and by the way, if we should ever get together and have a good time, and if I foolishly make a statement like "Gee, do you think we'll get together again?". It does NOT mean I am asking you for 1) a commitment 2) a relationship 3) your hand in marriage 4) or that I'm going to stalk you. It simply means I had a good time!)


I believe that true love does not come by finding the perfect person, but by learning to see and accept the imperfect person perfectly.

I am not looking for the perfect man, just one that is perfect for me!

We can meet briefly for the first time while I still have my foot on the pedal (in case of anything!)
Hey this IS the internet .... !

One thing for sure we can't do: take a walk on the beach! It'll be way too mobbed with thousands of POF'ers!

Something that will not result in the issuing of a restraining order.

(the infamous and annoying dancing pickle)