OK, so I have been back in the dating world for a little while now and I now have more CLARITY with who I am and what I am looking for.

The biggest difference between dating now vs. dating before I got married (besides the internet) is that I am now secure in who I am and I don't need to try to be something or someone I am not. What you see is what you get.

I am blessed with two great kids, and they come first in my life. I do not plan to have any more children of my own, but that doesn't mean I would not get involved with someone who does have children of her own. It's all good!

I am unselfish, sometimes to a fault, because it makes me happy to do things for others. I would do anything for family and friends.

I enjoy going to the gym when I can, and try to eat well (although it's not always that easy!)

I enjoy going out for dinner/drinks/movies or just hang out at home with a movie or tv. Love the whole snuggling thing. When I do get away for vacations I enjoy the relaxing beach trip. A week in the islands with a Corona in hand can do wonders for the stress level!

I grew up locally, but lived in California for about 10 years. If you've ever been to San Diego, you probably think I'm a bit crazy moving from there back home. Well, family is very important to me, and all my family is in this area. When my daughter was born, it was definitely time to have her grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins around to grow up with. I'm glad I made that decision.

I am happy with my life right now (actually, this is probably the happiest I have been in many years), and would love to find someone to share it with.

Two things I find myself saying all the time are "It is what it is" and "It's all good". And it is all good - come share it with me!