Hi, It seems that men look at my picture and possibly read my profile. I would like to understand what it is about me that seems to be unattractive to all you available men out there. For those who take the time to look and read thanks but are you too shy to contact me? Let me start by saying I'm still working full-time in Jersey City and looking to retire in the very near future so I can finally do what I want, when I want, with whom I want. It was suggested by a POF member I add that I'm not interested in younger men. I listen to a variety of music and I love to dance. I won't be the one to make the first move since I am from the old school and believe the man should make the first move. I prefer men who have posted a picture to contact me. I'm family oriented, trustworthy, loyal, shy until I get to know you, affectionate, loving, caring, dependable, friendly, honest, modest, fun-loving, flexible, and hope to meet someone with the same qualities. I love holding hands and plenty of hugs and kisses when appropriate. Family is a very important part of my life. I'm looking for a long lasting relationship. I have 2 dogs and 4 cats that live with me. I'll end here so there can be a conversation when we get to meet.

A first date depends on the man but lunch or dinner, fun conversation and lots of laughs would be an enjoyable beginning. Chemistry, of course, would be a plus.