This site is just like most anyone can make themselves into more than they actually are. So here goes on the honest truthand the only way to know for sure is to take a chance. The first thing I would like to add is I often wonder why people try to make themselves out to be more than they actually are.
Myself I'm just a plane person who has been shaken to the very core of my existance.all I seek at this time is to find someone that first of all doesn't have cats, dogs or other fur bearing animals I can tolerate them for a while but then my nasal passages will start to close off and breathing becomes difficult. So therefore I hope not to cause distress due to pets.
While I worked I was in executive management of a large telecommunications company. Then all of a sudden one day I got teriabbly sick and after staying incubiated for a bit I came out of it to such a degree that Dr's are still in awe.
I also have had the honor of serving the people of this area by spending quiet a few years in the fire protection services while reaching the level of Asst. Chief I had a lot of fun and surprizes while with the Dept. I did get to know several great people.
This says to talk about goals and aspirations, at this time my goal is to meet an attractive lady that really knows what a relationship is and is willing to invest the time and heart to make one work. This is not done by one but it does take two working hard to make it happen. I just do not want to go thru anymore pain, or having the loss of breath due to being lost in the events of life. Another point I must have is to find someone that can talk about issues without getting all silent and becoming distant in feelings. Maybe I ask too much but we should not settle for less than what it takes to make us happy. Also just wanted to add I do like to cook and bake at times, have been told that I do a really good job, but I don't do windows.
Now to my tast in music lets see Aerosmith, 38 Special, FleetwoodMac, Pink Floyd, ZZ Top are a few of my groups that I like, but now I can get into other types of music except for this head banging rap this I do not care for.
This is new to me , I find myself looking at some of the photo's of some of these ladies and I can not understand why they are looking because they are beautiful, I know they have been told this I'm sure numerous times but I find myself backwards when it comes to meeting and asking out women. I guess I have always been unsure of myself and afraid of rejection.
Would very much like to meet someone that would after a bit become most important in my life. Not looking for a replacement but let's say say a very plesant addition in my life. Seems that most of the people I've talked with have different agendas on their mind than what I do so that is why I find myself alone today. Never dreamed that I would be on one of these sitesafter twenty five years of marriage, but here I'am. X said she just wanted to be free to chase other ideas, hope that is working for her. I don't hold any hate for her but I'm still curious as to the real reason but that is her problen,now.
If anyone finds this stirring in any manner just drop a line and who knows, we could become friends and for the right person more if that is their desire.
My true goal is to find a unique person who will be able to sit and carry on a deep conversation, one who is serious in their feelings and have an interest in me, also one that wouldn't mind loading up when there is time and taking a ride to either the beach or the mountains for a drive.
I have always been an out going person who can talk to anyone on any level, but I do have a problem in my dreaded fear of rejection. This is something that the right person would learn over time, and maybe grow to understand why I'm like this.
I pray that I'm not an ugly person as far as looks go, just average nothing special, but I promise I will not cause anyone to run away.
Sorry this has gotten so long but maybe someone will find me a bit different and give me a line or so of encouragement. Or better yet drop a line and let's see if we fit what we are hoping to find.

The first date would consist of a meeting for coffee or whatever, and general conversation this would give us both an out if that is what is wanted. This could be a long evening or a short one would depend on both parties. This gives both people an out if that is so desired. As to what to do that depends on both people.