first let's start by saying that i'm a single father raising three boys. they mean the world to me. i'm currently working full time and i bartend part time. at the first of the year i'm going back to school to finish my degree. so sometime in december i'll get rid of the full time job so i can focus on school. i will attend iusb and get my associates in radiology. i've put off school too long and need to finish. hell i have 5 years already!!

i love spending time with my boys, playing in the yard, doing yard work, camping, hiking, going to the beach, really anything outdoors. not really into motorcycles or dirtbikes or four wheels and things like that. i really haven't been exposed to it. i absolutely love the cubs and notre dame football. i'm a bulls fan and a bears fan as well. i enjoy basketball, golf, bowling, pool, darts, cards and boardgames. i'm a movie buff and love all types of music, not so much the newer stuff though. 50's thru the 90's.

i'm not a materialist person. i do like nice things but my wants and needs are always on the back burner. i'm a people person, a bar fly, the life of the party, (not intentionally, it just happens) i love to laugh, i love to make people laugh, i smile a lot which can become contagious, i say "bless you" when you sneeze, i enjoy watching old people they make me laugh and smile, i crack my neck, i'm very random and unplanned, i love to eat, mountain dew is my favorite, and i want a english bulldog and i want to name him Wrigley.

i'm looking for someone that wants to be friends. someone that i can create a special relationship with. someone that could be my best friend. someone that i could fall in love with. someone.....

i know that sounds like i'm asking for a lot but seriously, we've all been through life experiences, lets all be honest with each other. i want to be happy. you want to be happy. wheather or not we become a couple, at least we gained a friendship. please feel free to write me.

good luck fishing....

i'm always open for the first date. i'm truely just trying to get to know you. with that in mind, going to the movies is a not a great way to get to know you. all ideas are welcome. maybe uphill skiing?