*Disclaimer*

I am truly seeking someone who is DRAMA FREE & SANE

If you are looking to play games of any kind I will figure you our fast and that will be the end of that.

Seems this site is full of players and I am seriously seeking and losers need not apply.


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Ok here is the deal

I was here before and have had some bad luck on here.

I had someone message me months back and she seemed like a dream. Said all the right things (player) started to do the right things and played me to a tee!


So I am seeking someone who is truly ready and able to commit to one man.

Yes that means I am seeking someone serious and I will be exclusive to them also.

This will also mean that all the profiles on dating sites will need to be gone if we hit it off. See keeping your options open will not get you too far with me.

You will need to be honest. I mean really honest not just telling people one thing and doing the opposite.

I am a well educated man both through practical schooling and the lessons of life. I can see through most BS so if that is your intention it would be best if you do not waste your time or mine.

I have a big heart and like to see people happy. I believe a smile is the gateway to someone's heart. I have learned over the years to be very gentle with someone's heart as the consequences of not can be damaging to someone you care about.

I am far from perfect and I will not put aires on that I am. But I do honestly try to do the best that I can everyday and genuinely think of what reaction my action will have on others around me.

I am not a big party or bar person. I do not like drunk people I do not know. I enjoy the more relaxing things in life which includes lots of outdoor time here on the lake in the summer.

I am well adjusted I have my life together and am secure in all areas of my life. I have all new luggage as I believe all the old baggage was dated and needed replacement to start new.

What do I ultimately seek?

Someone real who will take care of my heart and in return I would be gentle and take care of theirs.

If you are looking at my profile thinking "what can he do for me" then your going at this the wrong way. I look at people as to what I could give to that relationship and if it is real I would receive the same in return. That is real!


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Morals Values & Honesty


I have a question that I will ask anyone who messages me.

If you were involved with someone who did the below listed things what would you do as a responsible person?


1. Uses and abuses heavy pain killing drugs and manipulates doctors into giving you more. Would you report this to the doctor?

2. While using these drugs to the point of serious impairment continues to drive a motor vehicle on the city streets. It is the responsibility of a good citizen to report this correct?

3. While impaired to this point does not have the ability to take care of their children and allows street drugs to be used by them freely. A good citizen would report this to CAS correct?


I believe people like this should have all their rights taken away to drive use our health care system and children need to be protected from BAD parents like this.

My parents never acted like this and it sickens me that the ones today are allowed to get away with this nonsense since it is all criminal.


I am really interested in hearing what some of you more morally bound people think of the above statements.


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- I am not sure what I am actually seeking from here as it seems the pickings are pretty slim and from past experiences I am pretty selective with whom I will actually meet.

- If you are a serial dater or have loose morals and values I am not interested in any contact with you.

- If you have an ex that is much too involved in your life again I am not interested in contact from you.

- If you are overly medicated or have a victim mentality again please pass by me and contact someone who will play that game with you because I wont do that.

- If you believe that sometimes a lie is easier than the truth I am definitely NOT interested in you!

- If you are a "man hater" or still have issues that you need to work out please work them out before contacting me because I will NOT accept that behaviour.

- You also must love dogs actually all animals for that matter. If you do not there is something fundamentally wrong with you. My mother always told me "Do not trust someone who does not like animals" and she has always been right!

- If you do not understand the word "acceptance" then you may not be mature enough to spend any time with me. Acceptance is something realists live by in life and I am absolutely a big enough man to do just that. I seek the same in anyone in or around my life.

- Bonus points if you know the what the word Mensa stands for or are also a society member.


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So please if you can not tell the truth DO NOT contact me!

Also please DO NOT message me looking for a chat buddy.



It should read that I am 42 years old will not let me correct this for some reason...

Please do not allow the above to scare you it is just honesty at its fullest.

I seek someone real NOT someone that can sell themselves as something they are not.

I want to fall in love with who they really are because forever is a long time.

I also do not do Timmies Dates as that is NOT real coffee!

Nor do I want to sit accross from you and interrogate you!

I also have no interest in going to a bar. Nothing good ever happens in a bar!

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Have you ever wondered which hurts the most? Saying something and wishing you hadn't or saying nothing and wishing you had?

I guess the most important things are the hardest things to say. Don't be afraid to tell someone you love them. If you do, they might break your heart...if you don't, you might break theirs.

Have you ever decided not to become a couple because you were so afraid of losing what you already had with that person? Your heart decides whom it likes and whom it doesn't. You can't tell your heart what to do. It does it on its own....when you least suspect it, or even when you don't want it to.

Have you ever wanted to love someone with everything you had, but that other person was too afraid to let you? Too many of us stay walled up because we are too afraid to care too much...for fear that the other person does not care as much, or even at all.

Have you ever denied your feelings for someone because your fear of rejection was too hard to handle? We tell lies when we are afraid... afraid of what we don't know, afraid of what others will think, afraid of what will be found out about us. But every time we tell a lie, the thing we fear grows stronger.

Life is all about risks and it requires you to jump. Don't be a person who has to look back and wonder what they would have done, or could have had.

*What would you do if every time you fell in love you had to say good-bye?
*What would you do if every time you wanted someone they would never be there?
*What would you do if you’re best friend died tomorrow and you never got to tell them how you felt?
*What would you do if you loved someone more than ever and you couldn't have them?
*What would you do if you never got the chance to say I LOVE YOU?

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SO YOU ARE EITHER GOING TO LOVE THE HONESTY OF THIS PROFILE AND MESSAGE ME BECAUSE YOU TRULY ARE LOOKING FOR SOMETHING REAL OR YOU WILL CLICK IT CLOSED AND RUN AND HIDE BECAUSE MAYBE I HIT A COUPLE POINTS WHERE THERE MAY BE SOME GUILT!

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*If I have added you to my favorites im interested in you!