Update 10/30/09: Ok some may not like this but we are all on this site here to meet people. I look like my pics. So Initial attraction no matter what is looks then it leads to talking and growing to like the person for who they are. But not matter what. Every one has a look they like or a bodytype they like. So if I ask for a picture don't play dumb and say you have none. Everyone these days has a camera phone or some sort of facebook.

I'm an east coast kinda guy here. I am a very muscular guy but yet have a great head on my shoulders. So for those women who dont like big guys then sorry can't help ya there. LOL. Graduated with a Bachelors in Human Nutrition. Have been a top level bodybuilder for 14 years now. This does not mean all I do is work out LOL. I am a sponsored athlete so I get paid to compete. But this is not my life year round. You get what you see with me. I dont play games, if I like you, I'll tell you and if I dont think anything will go past just a friendship level I'll let you know as well. I am a very straight up and honest guy, I dont like to play with peoples feelings or waste anyone's time. Don't think it's right to do that to others. If I like you and the Chemistry is there then we will move forward. It's all about chemistry with me. I love a strong woman, someone who is tough but yet has that sweet side to her and knows how to take care of her man and enjoys doing so, cause I like to be that way in return. I like a womnan who is proud to be with who they are with and does'nt act one way in front of you and another in front of her friends. In essence I hate fake people.

As for me I am a simple guy. I don't show off, not an ***hole, I love being around friends and family. I dont need to go out every night of the week. If Im with someone I like the simple things. I don't mind sitting home making food or ordering in and enjoying the company of my significant other and watching a movie. I'm looking for a woman that can be my lover yet at the same time be my great friend. We can joke, play, travel, and just be ourselves when we are together. I have high expectations in my life so I like a woman who can be a motivator in my life, someone who can make me a better me not be a negative in my life. We can both push eachother to be better in our relationship and our lives. I love traveling with the person I'm with, experiencing new things together.

Princeses, or women who think their s*** dont stink, stay away please. I hate that type of attitude. It's really disgusting to see. We are all the same no better no less than one another. Seems like these reality shows have really played a part in people's minds these days. People are thinking that that is the way you should act in life. But come on if you are fake like that and think the world owes you and are a real materialistic type don't even bother. California is a bubble , this isn't reality out here. I've been to other states, countries, and lived there. I just love real, down to earth people.

Yes working out is a big part of my life. I'm not in the gym 24/7 like everyone thinks LOL. And no I don't just like an in shape or fitness type women. I do like however a woman with a nice body. You dont have to work out but yes I do like a sexy body. If you do however like to workout thats a bonus.

I am also very close to my family. Being part Middle Eastern I was always around my family. I was raised with traditional values. Something I dont think too many people have these days. I especially appreciate a woman who is like this but yet still knows how to leave the home and knows when it's time to grow up.

First date, I just want to talk and get to know tht real person. Have a good time as well but really be up front and honest about what she is looking for and the same for me. Talk by phone first and if we are already talking then I assume we would be interested in getting together and doing something. Doesn't have to be extravagant, maybe for coffee, depending on time or dinner. Either way just so see if there is any vibe or chemistry when we meet.