Ok, so I had to laugh when I read "If your profile is really lame it won't matter how good your message is." What I know is this. Many guys just sit around thinking they should not make that first move because they are "too good" for sites like this. That being said, why are they here? My favorite quote pretty much sums me up and it's by a poet called "Javan", which also happens to be a former radio name of mine, but that's another story..."I don't wish to be everything to everyone, but I would like to be something to someone...."

First dates. I saw a movie and something that was said which has always stuck with me. What if on the first date, you told the person sitting across from you everything! The good, the bad and the ugly. When you think of it, what better time to spill your guts about life then to someone who doens't even know you. Ok, not that I would really do that but in the movie it's just kinda funny and something to think about.