I'm new to this and am looking for someone who knows how to have fun and enjoy what life has to offer. I'm not into game playing or drama. I believe in honesty. I treat people how I like to be treated and am always optimistic. Yes, separated waiting on divorce. We get along fine but went down different paths. I am a retired US Army Officer that served 20 years and am now relaxing for the time being. I have two sons, one is 19 and is in the Marine Corps and the other is 17 and is a senior in high school who will also be leaving for the Marine Corps in June 2010. I'm very easy going and laid back and am looking for someone who wants to hang out and enjoy things. I like to go places and travel, but I'm also content with sitting around a bonfire with friends. I like cooking out, swimming, a night out and about or just relaxing with a good movie.

Taking an extented stay in Costa Rica after new year...just relaxing and enjoying the country and it's culture!

Anything that would allow us to get to know one another. Drinks would be a good start for a quick compatibility check.

I am not into clingy or jealous types. I don't control anyone and don't want to be controlled either. I want an individual who is their own person and comfortable with themselves. Looking for a friend who understands individuality.