Let me start off by saying I’m a very honest person who treats others with the respect and courtesy they deserve. I can’t stand people who lie and cause drama in relationships; if you’re going to lie why bother being in a relationship in the first place? I can see why so many women have a hard time dating, so many guys are shallow idiots that only think about themselves and have no idea what a real woman wants. Some people say I have a very old school mentality when it comes to women, I defiantly have some chivalry in me and people say they see that less and less. I’m not the type of person who takes control and tells a woman what she can do, when she can do it, and who she can do it with. Trust is one of the foundations of a relationship and too many people lack that fundamental. With that said im also not the kind of person who lets someone abuse or cheat on me. I don’t drink, smoke, or do drugs; those activities not only waste away your wallet, but also your life. I don’t go to clubs since the scummiest guys reside at those places and they make the few good guys that are out there look bad. I don’t take pictures of myself in front of a mirror with my shirt off or any tool activities like that, and I definitely don't go tanning. I will go to a bar once in a while with friends to catch up and grab something to eat but don’t expect to see me drinking. With that said, I am a fun person who loves to do stuff with friends. I’ m a fireman and I spend a lot of time at my firehouse with the guys since there are so many activities we partake in there, i.e. (midnight volleyball, movie night, chats around the fire pit, etc). We are a big family and we all have fun together, even though the neighbors probably hate us because we are loud and never leave. I like spending the night with friends just as much as I like curling up on the couch with a movie. To me there in nothing better then having a woman put her head on your chest and running your fingers through her hair. That to me shows compassion and belonging. I want a woman who takes care of herself and isn’t materialistic, there is more to life then bags and shoes. I like to look respectable too, but I don’t get carried away with it. I want an independent woman who doesn't need me to be by her side at all times. Someone who isn't afraid to get their hands dirty. Someone who has something interesting to talk about and isn’t afraid to strike up a conversation. Communications is needed to strengthen any relationship and without that so much can be lost and never experienced. A relationship is a two way street and I want to hear what you have to say and what you think, if I’m being a jerk feel free to tell me. I don’t want to be the person who has to decide everything all the time; I want you to take charge when you want something.

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depends on the person and the season, im not big on the cold weather so in the winter i usually stay inside and watch movies or go out to eat. on the other hand, in the summer i live outside. i would like to lay on my hammock under the sky and relax.