Simple Jersey boy seeks something to hold onto while this rock continues to hurl through time and space. With each passing day I come to realize whats most important in life, and how time has been wasted. I think I'm funny, smart and fun to be with, but who doesn't. My ideal match is someone who wants to go out and have some fun while open to a long term relationship. I'm currently living at the shore (Bradley Beach) and spending a little time at a house on the Delaware river (Stockton, by Lambertville). I'm looking for someone who likes the beach, the mountains, and finding a way to make every day count. Please tell what makes you happy. With any luck, our lists will match.

I grew up in Randolph (Morris County). I moved to Bradley Beach 8 years ago when I got my job in Princeton. I figured any opportunity to live on the coast and have a reasonable commute shouldn't be wasted. I'm a programming consultant for a MedMal insurance company. Eight years as a consultant must be a record, but I'm still going strong.

For the last few years I've been buying and renovating houses as a hobby. As a small (but lovable) child I was in the construction industry for a few years. It's nowhere near as fun as I recall, but I don't regret it. It turns out, I don't like 'building', but I like 'having built'. I'm now down to three houses, my primary home by the beach, a nice little cabin on the Delaware that I bought flooded and renovated, and a rental in central Jersey. I'm done with this hobby for now, too time consuming. Now I'm a gym-nut. Every ten years or so I make a run for physical perfection (if you knew me, you'd know I was smiling now). I'm about 2/3 to my goal and hope to hit it by summer.

I'm sorry, I won't respond to profiles without pictures. If I can do it, anybody can.

Throw me a wink and we'll grab some dinner, what could be easier?