I believe in friendship first then friends with benefits if there is chemistry. First meetings must always be in public. I consider myself to be a very average plain jane type of BBW. I am open minded and love to meet people. Both my hubby and I work in a swingers club in Dallas. We find it to be a great safe, no pressure place to meet.

I am strongly attracted to Italian men. I love olive skinned men. I have met one man from the site so far and he was actually better than I expected. I guess I got lucky right away.

I am not seeking quantity but seek quality. I am very attracted to intelligent men who like women that are not afraid to express themselves. If you can't stimulate my mind I will never meet you. I like romance and passion. I think kissing is the first most important physical part of foreplay, the first kiss says alot about what the man is going to be like in bed. I never give second chances if the man is not satisfying in bed.

I am open to almost anything as long it is in a public setting with no pressure to play. I will not play on first meet so do not even bother to ask. Be creative... stimulate my mind so that I will want to meet you for the first date. Tell me what you would like to do.