UPDATE .. . IF YOUR PROFILE CONTAINS THE WORDS.."ONLY FINE DINNING" OR "FINER THINGS IN LIFE".. DON'T BOTHER.. YOUR WAY TO COOL FOR ME.

WRITING POETRY IS A PASSION OF MINE BUT JUST FOR MY OWN ENJOYMENT ..I DRIVE AN OLDER CAR AND HAVE NO PAYMENTS AND IT DOES ME FINE.... I DON'T DO MOTORCYCLES, LOST TO MANY FRIENDS ALREADY. I AM LOOKING FOR AN EVENTUAL LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP... BUT THAT NEEDS TO START AS A FRIENDSHIP. I WOULD RELOCATE FOR THE RIGHT WOMAN BUT TIL THEN I DON'T MIND TRAVELING TO YOU.. I TRULY MISS THE FRIENDSHIP AND COMPANIONSHIP A GOOD RELATIONSHIP CAN BRING AND ALSO MISS BEING "IN LOVE" AND WOULD ENJOY SHARING THAT FEELING AGAIN WITH ONE WOMAN SOMEDAY.. I AM NOT A PLAYER OR SERIAL DATER.. .I AM LOOKING FOR A PARTNER,BEST FRIEND,PLAYMATE,TRAVEL PAL AND LOVER ALL WRAPPED INTO ONE.. WHEN THE LAST DAY FINALLY COMES,I WANT TO BE BANGED UP,WORN OUT,LOOKING INTO YOUR EYES AND ABLE TO SAY I DID WHAT I COULD AND I MADE A DIFFERENCE TO MY FAMILY, MY FRIENDS AND TO YOU. IF YOUR LOOKING FOR A MAN INSTEAD OF A BANK ACCOUNT..I'M THE GUY. HAVING BEEN IN THE AUTOMOTIVE BUSINESS FOR 40+ YEARS THE ECONOMY HAS HIT MY INDUSTRY VERY VERY HARD BUT I HAVE SURVIVED SO FAR AND AM PRETTY RESOURCEFUL. I HAVE STOPPED LOOKING FOR WORK FOR A FEW MONTHS AS MOM IS SICK AND I WISH TO SPEND AS MUCH TIME AS I CAN WITH HER IN BOCA AS IT IS PROBABLY HER LAST HOLIDAY SEASON. I WILL BEGIN WORKING FOR THE CENSUS BUREAU IN JANUARY WHILE I TRY TO RETURN TO THE AUTOMOTIVE FIELD.. MY PERFECT WOMAN IS LIKE A GOOD CUP OF COFFEE, CAN'T DO WITHOUT HER IN THE MORNING AND TOO MUCH OF HER AT NIGHT AND I'LL NEVER WANT TO SLEEP.

IF YOU EXPECT TO LOVE A WOMAN THEN....

LOVE HER, NO ONE DESERVES TO BE LOVED MORE.
BE HONEST WITH HER.. SHE KNOWS WHEN YOU LIE
MAKE HER SMILE, HERS IS MOST BEAUTIFUL
MAKE HER LAUGH, IT'S THE KEY TO HER HEART
ACCEPT HER, SHE IS ONE OF A KIND
BE KIND TO HER,SHE DESERVES IT
BE GOOD TO HER, SHE IS A GOOD WOMAN
RESPECT HER, SHE EXPECTS IT
GIVE HER CHILDREN ATTENTION, THEY NEED IT TOO
KEEP HER SECURE, SHE NEEDS IT
CHERISH HER, SHE IS A GIFT FROM GOD
LISTEN TO HER,SHE SAYS WHAT SHE MEANS
ADORE HER,SHE IS WORTHY OF IT
TRUST HER,IF SHE LOVES YOU,NO ONE IS MORE TRUSTWORTHY
BELIEVE HER,SHE DOESN'T LIE
LOOSE HER, AND SUFFER PAIN LIKE YOU NEVER KNEW
AND IF YOU MUST BREAK HER HEART
DO IT GENTLY, AND KNOW SHE IS STRONG ENOUGH TO MOVE ON WITHOUT YOU.
Copyright ©2009 Robert Longinetti

UPDATE ON 1ST DATE..
I DON'T DO "INTERVIEWS" NOR DO I BRING MY RESUME.... BEEN ON A FEW 1ST DATES THAT WERE TOUGHER THAN JOB INTERVIEWS.. LETS JUST TALK AND LAUGH OVER COFFEE OR DRINKS AND IF WE ARE BOTH COMFORTABLE WE CAN MOVE ON TO LUNCH OR DINNER.. IT TAKES TIME TO KNOW SOMEONE.. DON'T TRY TO FIND IT ALL OUT ON THE 1ST MEETING TAKE TIME TO LAUGH TOO.


LIFE WHISPERS
Whisper your love out into the universe.
Sometimes the one we send it to will hear it,
sometimes life's noise is so loud they simply stand there and let it pass by,
not hearing it's soft loving words.
But somewhere, while on its journey,..
it roams endlessly till someone whose open heart listens for it,
and hears your whisper.
With gentle fingertips they will reach out
and pull it into there heart.
Love sent is never lost,
it just may land in places
we didn't know existed yet.
Love shared also can never be lost,
its already written in the sands of time.
Only God can change that.
At times these whispers
will appear again in your heart.
They may bring a smile to your face for good things remembered,
or a tear to your eye for thoughts of what might have been.
But no one can stop them from inevitably returning at times.
Not even you....
Copyright ©2009 Robert Longinetti