How does you showing me your tattoo on your lower back help me do my job?!? You gals really need to stop lying about your age..You know who you are.Come on!! FORUMS Non Crux Sed Lux I keep getting asked what is that...That is my familys name sake, Motto..Not the Cross, but the Light...translated..I have many hobbies, interests, and aspirations. Photography, wine, food, helping people and animals are paramount on my list. My music is wide and eclectic. I love kids, my family and most things living or atleast respect them. I see things in nature, the beauty. Certian trees, flowers, water, and when I look up I do just stare at times and admire. I have a very dark and dry sense of humor and love to laugh, but would rather make others laugh. I am a giver by nature, and it does my heart well to do for others. I do know the difference in being brutally honest and brutally shoving your opinion down someones throat. Some of you ladies need to remember that your selves. Honesty is just that, not your opinion. I believe in words like passion, romance, friendship, bonding, karma, love, caring and hate, dont like it, but hate does exist. I dont have a set mold for a woman, but do like class, an education, well spoken, and not too reserved. What I am not looking for....Pay attention here...Dirty unkempt bathroom photos with the cell phone..Cell phone pics are fine, just clean up or make an effort. Bra and panty poses, have a little mystery please. Every single photo being a kissy/pouty lip pose, 1984 Circa Glamour Shots, well any Glam shot for that matter. Self pics with a Marlboro in your mouth, while driving and kids not in restraints.Yeah, Mommy of the year there...If you want to impress me? Take care of your self, have some class, be honest, remember values, morals, and common sense...

I do have a few ground rules..Please dont take this wrong, its not meant to be judgemental..If your say you are looking for a honest, kind, good guy, and you are posed in your underwear or doing something lude. What type of guy do you think you will attract? The guys who say I bet shes easy, or the guys who want you to meet his family???Also, if you are all dolled up and taking the famous bathroom, camera phone picture..Please make sure that room is CLEAN!!!!..Nothing better than a dressed up lady with dirty clothes and God knows what else all over the counters and floors.I love naughty, I love sexy, I love most things that people like, but please have some mystery. I am a handful myself and have made my share of first impression mistakes. I think we all have.First dates, arent they a bugger sometimes? I would prefer something casual, relaxed, with good food, good wine, great environment, and hopefully better company. I respect all religions, how ever I have never seen an Atheist in a fox hole. As long as you dont shove yours down my throat, hold The Bible or Qur'an over my head. I am Christian in beliefs and will respect what ever yours are.