I am a 45 year old male.
5’11 and 235 lbs + -
***UPDATE*** I have quite smoking after 30+ years and now am learning a whole new way of life along with ways to look at what life brings. If you do smoke not to worry, I'm not a smoking Nazi either :)
Short brn/salty hair, Hazel eyes.
A Beard right now but depends on my mood, maybe a goatee next month? (you never know)
I'm feeling A little overweight right now but I'm working on it.
No tattoos or piercings.
Pretty Open Minded.
And Brutally Honest.
:) Likes and Things that get my Attention :)
1. Living alone. (gotta be honest ya know) :)
2. Love to cook.
3. My 2 grown-up kid’s, a son 18 and a daughter 22.
4. Own my own home and in a long term job that I love.
5. Love my Fish, my Parrot, my Dogs and my 2 Horses.
6. Love to camp and fish.
7. Love 4 wheeling and sightseeing.
8. Hanging with open minded people just chatting about whatever comes up.
9. Am a people watcher.
10. Loves to hot tub and oily massages both giving and receiving.
11. Loves touching, kissing, rubbing, poking and probing.
12. Love subtle flashes.
13. Love to just relax and watch movies, chat or ?
14. Not a sex maniac but will spend hours on 9, 10 and 11.
15. Do have a Motorcycle and love to ride when it's warm out.
19. Secret Beaches, Secluded places.
20. Exploring new people, places and things.
21. Quiet Times with the right people.
22. Did I mention I really love my horses and love to spend time with them?
23. I try to volunteer at least 1 day a week (usually Sunday) at a Equine Rescue in Spanish Springs. www.haveaheartsaveahorse.org Wanna come??
24. Loved Burning Man 08 and 09. (don't knock it until you try it! It was a blast!! And I intend to return in 2010 :)

:( Dislikes and Turn-offs:
1. Someone that has Little or no self confidence.
2. Insecure people.
3. Close minded people.
4. People that judge everyone else.
5. Liars and Thieves. (you only have to do this once to me and you'll never see me again)
6. People that try to use me.
7. People that spend all their time worrying about what other people think.
8. Someone that can't relax and let things take their course.
9. Someone that can't open their mind to new things.
10. Folks that don't like to get dirty :) Cause some days ya just gotta :)

And finally I absolutely hate people that say....oh no I can't do that...I'm too old or what would people think!!!!
I'm just honest and the way I see it is that you only live once and you never know when that time is going to end, SO JUST DO IT!! YOU MAY NOT EVER GET ANOTHER CHANCE!!!
I know this all may sound kinda funky but please understand I was married at 20 and divorced at 43 so I guess I am still trying to decide what I want next in my life. I really am just a nice guy that is a bit nervous of the dating scene I guess. Am I scared?...naaa...bring it on...just cautious I guess :) So why did I sign up here? I'm not sure, maybe to find the girl of my dreams? A lifelong friend? Maybe to find the friend I should have met 25+ years ago, maybe put myself out there for someone else to have a shoulder to cry on, vent to, bounce things off of or maybe tell thier secrets to that won't laugh at or judge them? I don't know..I really like the life I have right now and am not starving for a sexual companion. I guess I'm just restarting slow and seeing what life brings. I will always try to reply to an email and would even chat on line to someone...but chances are I probably wouldn't be the one to start the conversation here. I guess I'm still a little shy to do that yet. However my daughter said after reading this that I should warn you that meeting you in person would be different. I am very dedicated, faithfull, outgoing, honest, spontainious guy and am not shy to say what I feel. I would always expect the same from everyone around me. For example If after a couple of chats you still can't tell me your real name because your not comforatable with me for some reason, we are wasting our time....please move on. If we make eye contact I am almost always the first one to say Hi and strike up a conversation.

I think this all depends on who, what, why, where and when. I love to Cook, Eat, Walk by the river, sit and chat, maybe just come out brush my horses and chat about life? Or maybe come with me out to the Horse Rescue to help clean, feed, saddle, medicate and maybe chat or even have a BBQ after? It really just depends on the mood, the weather or maybe how our emails have gone up to that point.