First and foremost...I am separated, not divorced yet...gettin' there! Honesty, MUST be on the front lines, baby!!! MINE AND YOURS!!! I will not tolerate lies. Been there, done that bought the t-shirt!! Liars, STOP NOW & MOVE ON to the next victim in line!!! GeT IT? GoT IT? GOOD! Hmmm...could that be a hint of bitterness...Yes, BUT I am giving over to HIM to handle it for me! Okay, now....I am not a shallow woman and I won't waste my time with shallow people, sorry, but I cannot & will not let those ppl rent space in my head!!! I love creating new and interesting dishes in my kitchen. My kids say that I am an awesome chef..hee! hee! I guess, they have to, right? They do wanna continue to eat, huh? I desire someone that can keep up with me in a "deep" conversation. Don't make me do all the talking...I will..but I will get bored with that! Ask me about who I am,tell me who you are, what I like, what you like and what I feel life is really about and you will hold my attention. Please, please be kind to others & continue to surprise me with all your great manners. You don't have to love my kids but you must accept them and respect the fact that they, right now, are my world and I am proud of them. I Do have great kids: Ashley is married, Kim's just out of highschool and figuring out what she "wants to be" and there's Dylan. Dylan is a 9 year old lil man. He has more manners than most adults. He loves God with all his heart and he loves to write songs about Jesus and sings them at church and the nursing home....he's a unique sweet soul. I love them ALL "to the moon and back"!! I believe that respecting others is not an option it's an obligation. Unfortunately, I have been "Blessed" with a wonderful lil thing called Narcolepsy...I fall asleep in odd places and at odd times...'member the movie Deuce Bigalow? I'm not that bad...I take meds..HA! HA! But it has forced me to be a stay at home mom. But it has NOT stolen my dreams nor my goals in life! My meds let me do most of what others do!! I believe I have a unique sense of humor...please have one yourself. I LOVE to laugh, I love to make YOU laugh...So will you make me laugh..I'm so ready! I like to go to a favorite spot of mine...there's a river, lots of sunshine and a big rock that I climb up on and enjoy a good book...reading one or (trying)to write one. :)I enjoy a good debate...NOT A BAD ARGUMENT!!! Just a good debate on something we both feel passionate about!I love to hear a good acustic guitar!! MMMM I FEEL IT IN MY BONES! I love word games. My family and I sit and play "you say the first sentence, I'll add one" and so on until we've made up a great story...sometimes just crazy or absolutely wEiRd! Love that stuff! Scrabble's one of my fav's. Bookworm that's a good one, too!Anyhoo, that's surely enough about me...If I've held your attention this long then I would prbly like to get to know ya! Thanks Bunches!

Hmmm Let's see...It's been so long since I have been on a date. My husband and I didn't date. Weird, huh? He's never asked me on one and never taken me on one.
On a first date I'd like to get to know who you are and what makes you...you. Hey, you could choose your favorite something..book, poetry, music, magazine...if ya play guitar...BRING IT!!! and play for me!! and I'll bring mine and I could share one of my favorite spots with ya! Well, not the secluded ones yet....nah, not on the 1st date, I like living!! ha!ha! It will be one of the more public places. Picnic, swings, water...etc.
Or we could just have a nice quiet dinner and talk until the sun rises.