Ok so Im re-writing my little message here. As my title says, I m looking for the one for me. Im trying to figure out if I should just be friends with people I meet here until I get all of my stuff handled or if I should be more to someone....hmm generally I would just let it happens as it should. Maybe that would be best but in the mean time, I can be romantic when Im with that person that I want to give my heart to. Someone that I can love and protect fiercly. Someone to wake up to as the sunlight plays in your hair and I look into your eyes and know that its real. That someone that you feel when they reach out for you or you them in the night. The laughs, the cries, the times when its just comforting to know that they will be there. The person that you can look over and they look up at the same time, you look at each other and you just have a feeling of "yes" unspoken. Someone to share my life with regardless of how long or short it may be. Someone that in the end I will smile knowing that I spent my life with them and all the great times we have had....

Depends on the person and their likes and dislikes. :) Once I know those then the plan for a date can formulate lol. :)