i'm a laid back country boy..got long hair ,and a harley and i love to ride,dance,shoot pool,and long deep kisses....muahhhhhhhhhhhh...anything outdoors...or indoors...i have lots of critters...i am a funloving,extremely honest,very respectful,romantic and passionate man,...quite shy at first...up-front..i believe in god,but don't do churches...i usually say it like it is..i am not a player!!! navy veteran,am a consevative,news junky...and into "reality"...not 'fantasy'...i like country,old rock-n-roll..most anything...happy man now that i'm divorced...i live on 6 acres by myself,very quiet,secluded and private..i'm an outdoorsman and a cancer survivor...after 5 yrs...very healthy and fit.. :covered by insurance... lookin for that special kind of woman the one that is secure with herself(independant and self sufficient) and knows how to take care of herself..."healthy...mentaly and physicaly"..must be happy,loving,passionate and caring..that has no jealous tendancy's...one that can give unconditional trust and love...one that can be a best freind...one that doesn't go into a relationship to change...one that's willing to build a freindship...and not to expect miracles overnight...there are 100 thing to consider in a relationship...and this takes lots of time to figure out...these things should be figured out before you enter into a relationship not after...if you plan on changing me or molding me...it won't work...i don't do jealousy,drama,gossip or lieing..very well.. also will not fight or argue...that is not in my life anymore..(opposites do not attract!!!).i have learned to live by myself and be happy... smoking can be a problem...cell phones can be rude!!!distance can be a problem...especialy"if there is no trust"...tried that...i live on a fixed income....and a budget...i do my own cooking and cleaning..very self sufficient...pretty good at it to... as it say's "freinds" at first...i am very unique and different from all other men..i believe in helping out...and can do almost anything... if there is anything you would like to know...ask me...i rarely make first contact....not actualy sure what a "date" is anymore...i know that most women are overwhelmed with e-mails....men are not!!!...so if your interested,you should be "persistant"...i want the woman that wants me...i will try to answer all e-mails....and be respectful,never inapropriate or rude,in any way...i do love to flirt though..if you do not like it ,please tell me... must be willing to show a picture...not a distant picture,ether...it's only fair(NO BLIND DATES)....if you do not want me to contact you again,tell me..or delete me...i take the hint realy well... not sure what the rules are anymore,seems like they are made as the game is played LOL..."these are some of my rules"...sometimes negotiable..so,good luck everyone..now,that i've eliminated 99%of all you lovely ladies...."let the games begin" boy,this seems alot like a "resume"......Hmmmmmm what kind of bait live...or artificial.....thanks for reading...if you made it this far...you should be quite confused...thank you for hangin in there...lol...tom....

romantic dinner under the stars and moon beside a campfire..a bike ride through the country..canoeing on a lake or river,4 wheel driving in the woods..or possibly something normal like a dinner and a movie...go out dancing...up for almost anything..whatever "you" would like to do....or maybe come and visit me at my place ...if you trusted me....and i can cook for you...whatever you would like to do...