This is always the hard part, I'm easy going, love a good laugh, you need a great sense of humor that is a must, i'm not a complicated person nor do i hold to the importance of material things, I enjoy the simple things life has to offer..not into the club or bar scenes anymore, love the outdoors (in the summer) i prefer to hibernate in the winter!! lol, I enjoy good conversation, it's not just about physical attraction that could get boring fast if you have nothing to talk about...I believe that how we see ourselves isn't always how others see us no matter how long the list of how wonderful we think we are, getting to know each others likes and dislikes are easier in conversation rather than in print. Communication is very important, sharing your thoughts and feelings with each other could lead to all sorts of positive things and better understanding one another, we have to face the fact we CAN'T read minds and assume, i think sometimes people do that and usually come up with the wrong conclusion... so not good lol, I love to read, if there is something around that has any form of print on it i'll be picking it up to read it.. seems like a compulsion for me to do so, and...... why are there men dressed in drag on this site looking to date women? i'm not trying to be offensive but i'm a little confused.... to each his own i guess!!

Ok... i felt compelled to include my 2 pups they have each other at least...lol and yes that means i am a huge animal lover!!!

When it comes to relationships i believe friendship is a good start, just because i state on my profile that i'm looking for friends it's only a start then maybe work toward a longterm relationship who knows?, i find it's important to have that foundation in order to progress to something so much deeper and stronger. Sometimes it isn't the compatibility or lack thereof, but the compromise that can make or break a relationship. Mutual respect and fidelity, honesty, integrity, can't begin to tell you how important those are..., So good luck to all of us who are sincere in our search!. Also not to offend anyone but if your many many years older than myself!? i appreciate your interest but my preference is in someone much closer to my age...much much closer, and uhm if i'm old enough to be your mom, or mom is not much older than myself? chances are that the same apply's, sorry just not the cougar type, nor am i interested in ever being one!


Ok, there seems to be a portion of my written profile that isn't clear enough for some, so i'm going to TRY to make it as CLEAR as humanly possible and at the same time try NOT to be RUDE.. here we go.... IF YOU ARE 21, 22, 23, etc, etc years old DO NOT MESSAGE ME!! because i won't respond... so sorry i'm not looking to adopt!


IMPORTANT BULLETIN: UNCOOL TO POST WITH YOUR KIDS ON THIS SITE WHERE POTENTIAL PREDATORS LURK. KIDS SHOULD NOT BE USED AS SALES TOOLS TO MARKET YOURSELF. PLEASE PETITION POF TO CHANGE THEIR POLICY ON POSTINGS WITH CHILDREN TO AT LEAST MASK OUT THEIR FACES IF POSTED. FOR WIDER COVERAGE OF THIS MESSAGE, PLEASE COPY & PASTE INTO YOUR OWN PROFILE...THANKS..

Something simple with no expectations...