My wish for myself is to start re-seeking my goal... and that is to find that ONE person who will compliment me and I him. Looking for a man whose actions match his words. MUTUAL RESPECT! REAL openness, vulnerability, has an air of contentment, tenderness, purpose, extreme passion, [the kind that will make you think of nothing else]. I am seeking a partner in crime-less fun in life! I am the type that you could trust with your life and I am seeking the same, that special someone who is just a great person to be around and you are so thankful that they have graced you with their presence. Are you the kind of person that I would be proud to know? Are you a really good kisser?

Big wish, isn't it? Perhaps it is obtainable, to find this ONE person. I am a very happy person, can you make me even happier and enhance the things I already love about life? Where are you?

I have not been active on this site since the end of March 09 and had my profile hidden until recently - still not sure if this is the best way to find the right person for me!

I keep myself in shape... hopefully you do as well. I usually get hit on by much younger men when I go out with my friends, so please look good for your age, whatever that may be!
Please people...
"Average" does not mean you are 20-30 pounds [or more] overweight.
"Athletic" does not mean that you watch sports or played them in high school.

I smile and laugh a lot. I have humor as a hobby, [not firearms]. I do not like to argue or surround myself with negative people, whiners, pouters, or the like. I am loyal, trustworthy and honest. I have had enough of the self-absorbed that clearly do not know how to share of themselves in a meaningful and positive way. I will move slow enough to uncover - hopefully, the ones that just say they want more from the self-centered ones, as I will weed out the ones that mistake my kindness for weakness.
I am looking long term... and do realize that it will take time to find this person I seek. I can wait. I am so okay just being me! I do know that men are just dessert and not the main course in life.


If you contact me and I do not respond, please do not take offense, It's all good and I wish you all well! If you can't contact me due to my settings and you think we would be a match... add me to your "favorites" and I may just contact you!



Not looking for.....
Hunters with guns, people who hate people based on race, closed minded, right-wing Republican's, men who use swear words in every sentence, ex-cons [or soon to be], POF addicts; is your main goal is to date as many as you can because you do not want to be alone for one second? Well, then, therapy may be in order for you. Log out, [if you can] and get professional help.

I love the smell of fresh cut grass, warm breezes that neither feel hot or cold on your skin, sun rises and sunsets, having interesting or funny conversations about things that matter, or even things that don't. Walks by the water, walks in the park, walking up to you... I love to listen to live music and dance, dance, dance!



I run my own business and I am partners in another, love art, music, laughter, recycling [someone has to help save the planet], and really good food.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E2YnDlEMXiU --- copy & paste: Sometime Around Midnight - The Airborne Toxic Event - is my new BREAK YOUR HEART song.

Music that I listen while I am working [that also makes me want to dance]: A Perfect Circle, Collective Soul, Tool, The Airborne Toxic Event, DJIEL [from France], Kings Of Leon, Dishwalla, Morrissey [, Ashes Divide, Ghostland Observatory, Filter.... and more.

Quick meeting somewhere, see if there is a connection first... Time to go out and listen to some music and have a dance or two!