A few things about me...I am adventureous, funny, sensual, sassy and not your typical woman. I am also kind, nurturing, laid back, honest, and educated. I have a great sense of humor, and am often sarcastic. Be warned I am a great communicator and express myself very openly. To the people I love, I am incredibly dedicated and fiercely loyal. A smile, a word of encouragement, and joke...those things don't cost anything. They don't take anything away from me...they only add positiveness to the world. And seriously? How can that be bad? (well...unless it is sappy...i'm NOT down with the sap!)
I have a tattoo Roxy Moron because I am a walking oxymoron. You need to talk to me to get to know me...and then you'll see. I am the most outgoing shy person you will ever meet. I am both intense and laidback. I have no hidden agenda. I do not live my life that way.
Okay, so now we are done with the lecture portion of the profile...
I love to hang out with people just laughing and sharing stories. I love live music primarily rock,punk and indie. The louder and more guitar driven the better! LOVE live music! I enjoy reading books and watching movies that are psychological thrillers, dramas, and comedies...not so much into 'traditional chick flicks'. (but then i'm not your traditional chick!) My favorite movies American History X, Fight Club and now, Couples Retreat (funny as hell).
I am a mix between a tom boy and flirty girl...but I think that just means I'm all woman. I love to have my door opened for me but I do not expect it. I love to wrestle. I am a physical person. Please do NOT read too much into this guys. I am cool in my heels, my Doc's, or my Chuck Taylors! I like to go out to eat or to laid back pubs, movies, art shows, and as previously indicated to live music shows ;) I like to cook for people and with people. I find it to be a very intimate form of expression and lovely way to see how you work together.
I do like to stay home play a boardgame or watch a movie or some silly TV (South Park, Intervention, Comedy Central and Paranormal rock).
My goals and aspirations? Hahahaha! Well...that only takes about a life time. These are always changing... but primarily my main goal in life is to be the best person I can be. I am working out to improve my health and release stress of life!! I continue to work to improve at my job (which I greatly enjoy). And I work daily to improve my relationships. To me a person's success is measured by their personality and ability to love not by their financial value. I am looking to develop friendships and perhaps with that one special person develop a loving, committed relationship. I recognize chemistry is a huge piece of this, but I would like to enjoy my time with a person on many levels.
What makes me unique? Well... I am me. I could tell you to refer to the list of traits that I have (i.e. sincere, funny, smart, playful, caring, honest and loyal) but many women on here will have the similar traits.
The main thing I can tell you ...is that I am me. No one else here is. I am like no other.
What would I like to do on a 1st date? Chill, talk and laugh over a meal, a few drinks, a walk, even hot chocolate (I do not like coffee). Perhaps walking 16th street mall or in a park. I love to people watch.
I am a very easy going person and it is important we are both comfortable. For me the most important thing when you first meet someone is that we are both as comfortable and as relaxed as possible...so we can truely be ourselves.
When I go on a date or meet someone, I truely want to get to know that person...that is why I am there, so it is important to me we both be geniune and as relaxed as possible.
******Please do me and you a favor...if stuff on your carefully 'created' profile is a lie (i dont care how white washed you think the lie is) dont contact me unless you are willing to tell me straight up. I do not want to date married men, not really into men who lead double lives, or those who have strong tendencies at playing Houdini.******