i'm back....lol :) okay so here it is. i absolutely am sceptical of this site and didn't really give it the chance it deserved. I thought everyone on here was a freak or computer geek. (sorry guys) I know a few people who have met their partner (or husband) on here...so i am giving it another try. I was quite vain to think that everyone is genuine and kind hearted and quite disturbed to learn other wise, so i'm gonna tell you what i am looking for. I want someone who is very down to earth, still a romantic at heart, i want someone who can actually carry on a conversation and not be asking to meet me the second i respond or chat with you for 10 mins. i am not always on the computer so it may take awhile to get back to you...be patient and not send me a nasty message just because i didn't get back to you lickety split! I do have kids and i also work full time. I am confident and independent and would like the same in a partner. I give respect and trust right away and you will be the one to have it taken away if it does. I love to smile and joke around but also know when to be serious...this is also one of the first times i have ever opened up this much before ~ i usually need to get to know you first. Looks arn't everything but are important as we both need to be attracted to one another. I am not looking to hook up or trying to get laid so if that is your agenda...try hitting a bar lol. Anything else you want to know (if you're still reading) you will need to ask :)

first date i would like to do something fun like bowling, catching a hockey game, anything that will make us smile, laugh and have a good time.