I am someone who is honest, believes deeply in integrity, ethics and I am open with how I feel about love, life etc... I am looking for someone who also values honest communication. I am a big believer in actions speaking louder than words. So if you are someone who regularly responds to questions from your partner with phrases such as: I don't know, I'm not sure, I don't know what I want, Whatever you want is fine etc.. I may not be the right guy for you.

My friends say that I resemble Ben Stiller, in looks and in humour.

You should be someone who has just as much fun going out to a for a good time. laying out in the sun or just staying home and watching a movie.

My friends will tell you that I sometimes can be the life of the party. I once even did an amateur standup comic routine. I love finding humour at even the simplest things in life. I love to laugh and you should enjoy laughter too. If we can not laugh together than we should'nt be together.

I hope you are a fan of music. My tastes go from classic rock, to country, to hip-hop though my favorite is good old Rock and Roll.

Taking care of myself physically and emotionally are important to me, I hope they are for you too. I am mature enough to know that it is what is inside that counts. However I can not discount the need for physical chemistry also.

I work in Channel Sales for a Technology company managing our VAR (Value Added Reseller) relationships. If you are not in technology sales than what I do for a living can be a bit perplexing. The below instructional video was made to help school children get a better understanding of the Information Technology Channel Business. If you are interested in me than please take a moment to learn more about my career http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P89E1F7tryU (By the way it is kind of funny)


The below song got me through some tough times in my life. I find it very inspirational. For those of us taking risks and dating again this song is for you. So even if you decide not to contact me, if you have never heard this song it may just brighten your day...as a believer in Karma that would be good enough for me.


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Lee Ann Womack

I Hope you Dance

I hope you never lose your sense of wonder,
You get your fill to eat but always keep that hunger,
May you never take one single breath for granted,
GOD forbid love ever leaves you empty handed,
I hope you still feel small when you stand beside the ocean,
Whenever one door closes I hope one more opens,
Promise me that you'll give faith a fighting chance,
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance.

I hope you dance....I hope you dance.

I hope you never fear those mountains in the distance,
Never settle for the path of least resistance
Livin' might mean takin' chances but they're worth takin',
Lovin' might be a mistake but it's worth makin',
Don't let some hell bent heart leave you bitter,
When you come close to sellin' out reconsider,
Give the heavens above more than just a passing glance,
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance.

I hope you dance....I hope you dance.
I hope you dance....I hope you dance.
(Time is a wheel in constant motion always rolling us along,
Tell me who wants to look back on their years and
wonder where those years have gone.)

I hope you still feel small when you stand beside the ocean,
Whenever one door closes I hope one more opens,
Promise me that you'll give faith a fighting chance,
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance.

Dance....I hope you dance.
I hope you dance....I hope you dance.
I hope you dance....I hope you dance..
(Time is a wheel in constant motion always rolling us along
Tell me who wants to look back on their years and
wonder where those years have gone)

I feel a first date should be something where we can get to know each other in a casual environment. I also can appreciate how women have to be careful with meeting someone they have only talked to on line or on the phone. For that reason I feel a first date should be meeting in a public place like Starbucks and have a casual conversation. If it goes well and both of us agree that we would like to get together again than the second date should be something better like dinner.

The third date....now that is where creativity can play a part. However I would want our third date to be something special so I don't want to give it away here. Besides it should be original