I worked for the state for over 3 years , I grew up in South County . Life has been a blessing and continues to be more so everyday . I try to stay mentally sharp by challenging myself and learning new things . In June I recently have become a Licensed massage therapist . However I am seriously considering continuing my education and working on my Bachelor's Degree . I like to try to juggle a soccer ball as good as I used to be able to years ago . For some reason it has almost become forbidden to look for serious answers to questions pertaining to whether our so called representatives our doing their job or our they working for special interest lobby groups . I think people have been obfuscated long enough . I may not always win popularity contests but a former coworker told me that I would be right up there . If our government is of by and for the people How come we never know or know people that have good friendly discussions with our representatives . I have tried and continue to try to be about something . Life is short pray hard . Life in the flesh is like a fog that comes and goes compared to the eternity that lies ahead so I would rather be alone than with some one who will bring me down . By all means educate me , inform me , enlighten me , humor me improve me be constructive not the opposite be prudent get right start with the person in the mirror . I like alot more things than I have listed and I could probably learn to like more . I like 3rd party political candidates , thought provoking films . Being close with my woman in several ways . It helps to be on the same page or at least understand the page I am on . We need to get back to the basics of life a heart that is pure and a love that is right . The rock of all ages will stand through the ages of time from the song by 4him for some reason is going through my mind . I have been told that I am an old soul and sometimes I feel like one . I am not looking for a snob just a woman who is about something . The love that you withhold is the pain that you carry . We judge ourselves .

See a movie , depending on the weather if it is nice enjoy a park . I think going to get a massage on a first date would be great because it would help reduce anxiety tension and stress and put both participants in a very much needed relaxed state activating the parasympathetic system instead of putting them in fight or flight mode of course I don't mean physical fight I think of scrutinising or judgemenatlism and alot of times people are not honest with thiierselves or the other party , I guess people just want to be polite . Drive a cab for a few years and work in a prison for 3 and a half years and lets see if that changes . It may or may not . Life is too short to spend it with someone who is inconciderate and self centered . I don't want to be with some one who is just a taker . I need a partner to help pull the wagon not a blood sucker . I know sometimes we have expectations of what will or should happen and that it should happen a certain way however everyone is different every day is different and different people have reached different levels of maturity . If 2 people agreed on everything there would only be 1 of them like Steve Brown from Keylife has said many times over the years on his broadcast . So I guess the real and only way people become 1 is when they have a child other than that peoples attitudes and peronalities , actions and behaviors change who we are or how we feel after we have spent time with them . I just can not see myself with an obese person that just likes to sit on the couch all day and eat junk food even though alot of times they have nice peronalities and low self esteems . Working in a prison I noticed there were some prisoners that took advantage of people like that and they would say that they just told them what they wanted to hear so they could get money to buy stuff at the canteen . I don't bite atleast not too hard at least not on the first date just kidding seriously about biting period . I would love to throw a frisbee , kick a soccerball back and forth , play tennis ,watch a good movie at night , go fishing , walk in the park , go to museums , take turns reading to each other things that we both like .