This seems to be the site where all the 'separated' men fish so I'm switching ponds. Suggestion - Why not settle your own dust before stirring up others, eh? Not at all interested in getting caught up in your dramas. Trust me, there is always a damn good reason a woman chooses to leave a not-so-good-afterall man! Usually, her own sanity, survival and happiness!
No connection here has sparked much interest so I've decided to stick with the more tried and true methods in real life, which seems to be working just fine, tyvm. At least it's easier to determine quicker that a man is who he says he is. I don't have the available time to waste sitting behind a computer screen and frankly, am not interested in someone who does!
My chosen methods and social activities seem to keep me busy enough, given my schedule and are far more interesting in the long run.
Besides, I have a new puppy so maybe you can find me at the dog park or Petco.
Best of luck to all. Thanks for the smiles boys... Cya!




Good luck often finds the person who doesn't include it in their plans...
I figure that Friends, Dating or Longterm are really all the same... just different chapters in the same book - so to speak - that will add to the plot and climax. Am looking forward to this next chapter in my life with enthusiasm and anticipation.
Carpe Diem! (or whatever you care to carpe)
Prefer taller men (6ft+/-) since I'm at least 5'10 in heels. Nothing personal, just my own comfort level, especially for hugs.

Suppose I can manage to be happy, find purpose and enjoy Life regardless of how my remaining personal dating cards are dealt... but admittedly, I'd prefer to find a stable, reliable, sharing and still willing to have fun "partner-in-crime" again to share smiles on a regular basis. Will technically be new to the area so getting to know some new people, sights and sounds on a regular basis is something am looking forward to.
Any suggestions are appreciated.
(I repeat, suggestions are very much appreciated - hint, hint)

Guess like most, am seeking that indescribable something... a connection that feels like it 'clicks' with smile after smile from the get-go and the enjoyment of discovering on what level as it grows. What more can I really say?
I'm a very approachable person and don't usually make or take the time to sit out here "fishing for a man" especially when spring has sprung and the sun is shining clear thru to the chill of fall and turning of the aspens.
Autumn is my favorite season and a key reason have wanted to relocate to Colorado for decades it seems (SoCalif "native")
Hopefully, will be unpacked by then.

There's plenty more that could be said and shared but I'll save my breathe for those with a genuine interest who ask the right questions.

*Remember, never make someone a priority who treats you like an option *

Whatever works and when that casual first meeting proves appealing am sure we'll figure it all out from there...
Point being, as much as I actually like coffee, must we be so cliche'?

If it matters, misclick took place at registration, my bday is in December and am not that horoscopically inclined anyway.

And... just curious, IS there a 40-something year old man in Colorado who -doesn't- ride a harley every weekend???