I am not the average guy , sure we all say that , What I am looking for is someone who enjoys life , it is rough on all of us and while sharing is a great thing , whinning is a pain . I want what we all want and need someone to enhance my life and dreams , not complain about them . A woman that Loves to laugh and can ( as I ) be the brunt of the joke or the person telling it , I have no problem laughting at myself , there are times I crack myself up , hahaha, life does not need to be so serious ! I was married for 21 years and have been divorced for over 6 years , I can enjoy myself and my life alone but would also enjoy a partner who fits me , I am self employed and do fine , Like time out at my friends farm house , the beach ( Mexico )the mountains or wasteing time at home , sleeping in and Coffee.Love comedies and time with friends , I am a social butterfly , can get along with just about anyone ( if I want to ) and am the Bull when it comes to my sign , Some people belive in those , mine is correct on many points .I would like to meet a mate that is ( ready for a list ? )
Has a good balance between using her head and using her heart . Is not pessimistic and approaches problems calmly when they arise .
She is nice , but does not think she is a saint .
Likes to go out of her way to please her guy ( I will do that for her !)
Likes conversation and finds it comes to her easily , does not mind speaking her mind but also see's the importance of listening to someone else's point of view .
Someone honest and reliable , wants to build a relationship for the long run , but doesnt need me for constant support .
Attemps to avoid conflict when possible , not search for it ( that can be a long story , haha )
I want a woman who is sensual and enjoys occasional romantic gestures but is not unrealistic in her expectations .
A woman who needs intense physical chemistry with her partner , likes to look good but does not obsess over it , likes to stay busy , but also appreciates time at home .
Well if you are still reading ? I try to excersize and eat healthy , as much as I can , not a health nut . Enjoy cooking , Make some killer Bar-b-q , and bake some mean deserts . I can go on --------- but if there is more you would like to know , Ask !

It all depends on my date , I would want her to enjoy it and in her enjoyment I myself can find Pleasure , the time of the year and the weather ( dont like the cold much anymore ) would all play a part . It could be a simple day out or a nite at a nice bar , coffee or alcohol . I dont have a fantasy about a first date , Some have been Great and others , huh , not so Great .