....ok so alil about me hmm...im a 25Yr old single male. Right now im jus workin between school...i enjoy goin to the gym (im in there any chance i get) lol, snorkling, boating, hangin with frens, bbq-n (i can cook, watch-out now)lol hittin the beach, mini golf, shuffle board, road trips or maybe jus catchin a late nite movie! oh and ive never missed an episode of Burn Notice or Royal Pains. ...Anything else? jus ask!

A first date is an audition. You should be prepared for success or brutal failure that eats away at your self-esteem. Sadly, this world of dating leads some of us to quit, or get frustrated. Some of us (masochists), though, keep trucking through, hoping to land that big role in someone's life.


As first daters, we also sit on the other side of the audition, in the director's chair picking out things we like and don't like, weighing the options, and deciding if the person deserves a second audition (date).

...and sometimes you cut the entire date short before it's over, like those awkward bad American Idol auditions.


Here are the questions I ask myself during a first date:



How Tough Was It To Get Together?


If she gives me the run around, is too busy, or is flakey, I get annoyed quickly. Finding time to spend together can be difficult up to a point, but if it takes a while to get together, I'm already going into that date with mixed feelings.