i like to read and play games of all types i like to exercise but admit i haven't been as faithful with it as i should be. i am the oldest of 6 kids and hve 8 nieces and nephews with another on the way. i am a good person who likes to hang out with friends go to movies and clubs. i like all types of music for the most part but i don't like very heavy metal, hardcore rap, and most country although there are a few artists that i do like. i don't want to be alone forever. i would like to meet someone who i can get to know and that it leads to marriage and a family. i'm not happy in my present job but am kindof stuck right now esp with the economy the way it is. i like most sports. i grew up with 4 brothers so i don't mind going to or watching sporting events. i don't follow them the way i used to. i don't have a whole lot of free time because of my job i work a lot of hours and don't want to waste the time i do have. i am involved in my family and while i believe in god i don't attend church regularly. i wouldn't mind changing that if need be for the right person and i definitely want to raise children in the church. just maybe not as strictly as i was raised.

on a first date it could be pretty much whatever we decide on together. maybe dinner and a movie which is pretty standard or hitting a bar and shooting some pool. i would prefer a venue that would allow us to talk and get to know each other. i don't necessarily believe in love at first sight but i do believe you can know fairly quickly if you could be compatible w/someone and being able to sit and talk to each other and what you may want out of life early on could save a lot of wasted time. i don't like to waste my time. you don't have to spend a lot of money on someone to go on a date and weather permitting a picnic and walk in a park would be good for me it would give my date and i time to talk in semi privacy without a lot of outside influences