Well a little about me. Im a pretty great guy, however i am not a perfect man by any stretch (if there is such a thing). I enjoy just hanging out and enoying the company of Friends, Family and mostly my son. I am an extremely loyal person probably to a fault. I consider myself to be a great father and a good friend. its not always easy but it is always well worth it. I think it would be pretty difficult to sum up any one personality in this little box so my profile maybe random thoughts.

I am not exactly looking for a relationship, but would like to learn more about the intresting people out there in hopes for a real connection to someone. I am not about meeting someone after a few email exchanges. Im a pretty busy man and i want to really feel like i have that connection before even taking that small step.

I have always been skeptical of the idea of "Soul Mates", but DAMN! wouldnt it be nice. I guess i want to believe in the idea but am waiting to be convinced.. this is Probably not the best place to convienced of their existence since everyone here is still looking, but you never know..

*** I am looking for friendship and talking, i think to be strait out looking for a relationship is kinda odd. I think getting to know someone as a person is a more natural progession to a real relationship*** Im not an online serial dater, and this is my first time, so forgive me if i make any online "friend Making" mistakes..

If you are a woman looking for a Jet setting partner to travel the world in 30 days then i probably am not going to be ideal, unfortunatly i live in the real world. And i would like to add that, Spelling Nazi's are a huge turn off for me. Partly because if incorrect spelling was a crime i would probably be doing life, but also because i think its just another form of intolerence and "Judging a book by its cover". **I really hope i didnt mispell any of that..**

I have recently come to the conclusion that there are two types people in the world. One is a victim of life in that their circumstances control them and then there is the ones that control the circumstances of their lives. I try every day to be the later of the two.

"If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude. Don't complain." - Maya Angelou

i can really appreciate an introduction email that consistence of conversational substance.. The "How are you", "hows your day", and the like make me feel like im part of some mass email chain. lol.. Again maybe thats how these things are done.

Doesnt matter, As long as there is a strong connection and good conversation.