So who would have thought that society would evolve to where a electronic device known as the computer, would be the tool for a lot of people to find "the one". I have been doing this dating sight for a few months now and I think I am just too picky and have high standards. I had originally put down long term as the main thing I was seeking. I soon realized that friendship before anything is the way to go. That way there is, no pressure, no expectations, and of course I gain you as a friend (which you could never have too many friends!). I definitely need a friendship foundation before anything. So in this new dating reform.. that is why I say Come one... come all!

Are you still with me? Good! This sight can be soo mind boggling! So in my attempt to not waste your time or mine.. I am going to discuss: About me, What I want, what I dont want, my guarantee and of course the taboo things of this sight (the darkside of online dating Oooo!)

About me
Hobbies/for fun:
I love playing my acoustic guitar, I have been playing for 15 years now and it never gets old. I have had a select handful of songs Ive recorded.. but really just for fun. I guess the most notable thing is I was credited in a Southern Rock band's album.. I'll have to share that story in person ;-)

Goals: I am currently full time(possibly moving up with them) with a company and majoring in electrical engineering. Why pursue 2 things? Well.. have you seen the economy lately? Its ALWAYS good to have a back up plan. Crap happens..

About my personality: I am kinda goofy.. no lie! I try to make the best of any situation. I am very sincere and would give the shirt of my back to anyone. Yes at times I have ADHD.. but in all fun :) Life is way too short to be all serious!

What I want:

I want friendship first before anything. I have been instant "add water" relationships and it never seems to work. That is why its important that the girl who eventually becomes my girlfriend needs to be my best friend. I have standards.. you have standards.. but I am trying to make it to where if a girl is good for me comes by.. I dont miss out on that opportunity. I dont care how much money you make, or how many degrees you have. Its all about life experiences and how well you treat other people.

What I dont want:

Yeah you know some of you are pretty darn superficial. I think my fav one is "I want a notebook romance" when in your profile says requirements for dating is a PhD. That is ridiculous.. I dont think the lead guy didnt make more than 30k a year. Plus he went through hell from her mom! I dont want someone who is pessimistic or have too much drama in their lives.

My Guarantee:

30 days or your complete money back satisfaction! j/k But in seriousness, I think the hardest thing on here is tell someone the infamous two words "Not interested". It will happen to you and it will happen to me time to time. No biggie! I will not lead you on, play mind games, or be flakey(I swear some of you invented frosted flakes!). And if you dont like me.. I am not going to think the world has ended.. But I will give you the respect of telling you its not going to work out between us.

Taboo:

Now to the juicy stuff! Most of you girls have probably just got out of a relationship and probably want to fill that empty void. SO you heard from some friend about this online dating thing and it worked for them (or currently is) and you should try it. To know that you have a plethora of guys you can date at the click of your mouse is pretty overwhelming. Its important to know that YOU wont click will every guy you meet and that instant WOW can happen instantly or over a period of time. If we meet and we dont click its NOT the end of the world.. we are all here to find friends/dating/relationships. Its also important to know if your friends are on here.. you might be talking to the same guy.. I am not a player.. but I do like getting to know people and asking the same questions. If you think that one guy is just talking to you.. you must be completely naive. Plenty of fish is designed to meet plenty of fishes..in hopes to find that one fish. dont take it seriously!! I will be honest and tell you straight up about everything.


Final thoughts: I am just me, take it or leave it. I am not going to waste my time with wishy washy people. I believe that you do have to be attracted to that person in order for things to work.. Personality is the key! I understand that some girls are looking for someone to take care of them.. and there is nothing wrong with that.. I just want someone who will put as much as I put into the relationship.. Its your world.. I just live in it!

On the first date.. pretty much a simple coffee date would be ok..