I am just a normal girl looking for a normal guy in the OC- Flakes need not apply.

You are a professional in your field, you are smart (preferably have a college degree or higher), you are FUNNY and outgoing. You are hot-looking (in my eyes) and you are looking for that incredible mental, emotional, physical, verbal and sexual attraction to a women for a monogamous relationship in the long term. You work out regularly and believe staying in shape is important to your health.

Please live locally, I am not looking for a long distance anything :-) Thanks!

I am looking for my best friend who I can enjoy anything with, from working out and playing sports, to cooking dinner together, traveling the world together and just hanging out at home having a great time. You are over all your past relationships and are ready to be in a healthy new one. You may have kids, you may not, but you are not planning on having any more.

Me: Outgoing, independent, successful, athletic and fun-loving woman who has everything in life...but YOU. I have great friends and family, the cutest little dog and a decent job, actually it was a great job till the stock market tanked. I have lived in CA for 11 years and have been a financial planner for the same amount of time. In my prior life, I grew up in NYC and spent 15 years as a clothing designer but got burnt out, closed my business and moved 3000 miles away for a change! But I am here to stay in socal. I love the beach, that's why I live near it...love to blade along the beach path.

I work hard to stay in shape and appreciate a man who does the same, I especially love "hardbodies"... plus it gives us something else in common. I dance ballet, do pilates, lift weights at the gym and cross train, workout 5 days a week doing one of the above.

I prefer an easy going guy who is low maintenance, doesn't want, need or like drama. I am a fairly low maintenance woman... I don't take an hour to do my hair and put on my makeup and I am always on time, unfortunately, to a fault:-) and I don't PMS :-) I am not trying to mold a guy into what I want him to be...I have learned that what you see is what you get. I was engaged before and we owned a house together. We never actually got married (due to 9/11, long story)...but ending that 6 year relationship was like going thru a divorce.

I am NOT a Cougar...I prefer guys who are atleast 40 years old, as I am really 48, not 42. Yes, I put 42, otherwise I don't show up in searches by men close to my age or younger. I promise I look 10+ years younger than my real age and if you don't agree, the drinks are on me.

My pictures are recent, I look like my pictures, I am 5'2" 107 lbs and in very good shape. Thanks for reading!

Meeting for a drink or coffee (anything but Starbucks, please) is my idea for a first date from a dating site, maybe dinner if we really hit it off. Let's chat on the phone first and see how easy the conversation goes!