If you want a man who likes to play & make you laugh; listens to what you say & tries to understand; is generous enough to give you space when you need it; or kind enough to pull you close when you want him to; is strong in the ways you need him to be; and soft in the ways that you want him to be - then I think that guy could be me.

I can laugh at myself and almost always share laughter with those around me. I'm far from perfect, but when I make mistakes I do my best to own up to them and learn to not repeat them...unless of course it's my inner idiot that breaks out

I've worked hard to build a good career, have always stayed close with my family, collect & keep many old friends, and love finding new things to do both outdoors and in. I prefer my music live a couple times a week, talking about anything, exploring the world around me - both physically and intellectually. I am an affectionate man looking for an equally affectionate woman.

I'm open minded & realize that there's a lot more that I don't know than what I do & prefer to be around those who are still willing to learn someting new and can think outside the lines as easily as within them. While I hope to once again end up in a long term relationship, right now I'm just looking to meet someone to date, have some fun, and let it go where it goes without being in any hurry.

I would try to have a mixture of getting to know each other and having some fun or at least something interesting to do or see. If I'm with the right person then I can have fun almost anywhere. How about you?