If you ask me what someone does with all these books then you probably are not going to be comfortable with me. I like to flyfish because trout are found in beautiful places and only in clean water. Besides, one day I might catch a mermaid. I've done some travel (I try to go to Belize once a year) but some day would like to see Africa. I have an 23 year old son, who moved back to California, that is the light of my life. I love being a dad. I have been single for 19 years now and I guess it just turned out that way. One day a couple of relationships don't work out and the next day 19 years are gone and you wake up on an on-line dating service. I am disappointed by women who are have issues with men. Seeking someone secure enough to revel in any differences we might have and recognize that adds depth to our relationship. I've done some writing (not been published much though), painting (Alexander Method) and have a degree in photography. Recently I've discovered Neo-swing music so that is what I listen to in addition to the standard list below. I play the drums in my oldies band. We do Oldies, Stray Cats, Bo Diddly, George Thorogood type stuff. Poker or Chess can be fun too .