first of all single mom of a beautiful 8 yr old daughter and handsom 7yr old son !!! 2nd i'm currently laid off (which really sucks ) and i bartend part time on saturday nights . 3 rd I'm full of flaws but then who isn't right lol! on the upside I'm full of energy ,have a great sense of humor ( some may find me odd ) , I over analyze everything (due to 2 much freetime on my hands is my guess as to why ) . but overall i'm a loving caring person . I tend to be a hermit at times because the world just simply scares the hell out of me or maybe its just because the economy sucks and who can really afford to do much anymore . i find it hard to date due to the fact I have children and I don't like leaving them at a sitter all the time . so defintley need someone who understands the meaning of family and friends . I've not been in a serious relationship in over 5years now and I'm ready to find someone which i could settle down with if things go right . not just looking for someone to shack up with for a minute . I've never been married yet and would like to be someday (every girls dream!!! ) . I'm looking for friends and possibly the one I'm meant to be with . honesty is the only way to go with me, regardless if it hurts my feelings it's better to know the truth then to have to keep guessing . I like a variety of music ! I want to find that person who inspires me and makes me want to be a better person than i already am . I'm a madcap type who is fond of routine . . If you would honestly like to get to know me then send me an email .

ok ...i get asked what i look for in a man :
I'm looking for that someone who can be an equal ,a sense of humor ,knows the meaning of respect ,has morales and values . I can provide for myself and my children so i'm not looking for money or material things .I could careless about what kind of car you drive or how many toys you have. i want to know whats in that heart because thats what my life seems to be lacking . The feeling of finally being complete and fulfullied with that happiness we all desire deep down inside . so what i'm searching for is that love without conditions !

some where we could just hang out and chat for a few to see if we click in person .